Thanks for thecomment. I am actually pretty amazed at the infantile level of thinking from many. But it's fun responding to them.

And, yes, to a point. When all cops have video, it's pretty easy to go back and sue the hell out of them. The moment you give any reason for investigators to conclude that you were resisting, then you strip yourself of any possibility of exacting real justice. Play their game in the moment (in this moment, with the child present) and fight another day.