You need to read with some circumspection. Jesus was directing his scorn at the Pharisees, not the Jewish people. Time has passed, and the Pharisees as a class are a different matter, and now the Jews have their own government, not subject to the Romans. Moreover, the Jews did NOT CALL THEMSELVES "God's chosen people." That was God speaking to the Jews through the prophets. Christians are even more "God's chosen people," through baptism and Christ's sacrifice and resurrection.
I am sorry for your family history. I have some inkling of what that can lead to. I'll leave it at that.
You need to read with some circumspection. Jesus was directing his scorn at the Pharisees, not the Jewish people. Time has passed, and the Pharisees as a class are a different matter, and now the Jews have their own government, not subject to the Romans. Moreover, the Jews did NOT CALL THEMSELVES "God's chosen people." That was God speaking to the Jews through the prophets. Christians are even more "God's chosen people," through baptism and Christ's sacrifice and resurrection.
I am sorry for your family history. I have some inkling of what that can lead to. I'll leave it at that.
We may differ on some of these points, but I am glad to hear that your daughter and husband live in the sunlight of their time.