Bonhoeffer's Theory of Stupidity - 5 minute video that explains why you can't wake people up by using facts on them. Also, stupid people are worse than evil people.
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🧠 These people are STUPID!
That stubbornness is the key to her waking up -IF you can tap into why is she stubborn. It's very likely that it is a moral issue she does not see straight yet - If you can give her information that aligns with where her areas of agreement and common ground with you are, then expand then to areas you are not as close on, slowly to let her digest them, you can let her convince herself.
For one, she has mommie issues. Her mother is a real piece of work. I don’t know how she handles it. I figure a lot of it is a silent rebellion against her mother. She does her best to keep the peace and have familial relations, but DAMN her mother isn’t happy unless she’s bitching about something.