As a female (married) here's how it hits: It will startle the thinkers and some of the feelers - If you will put a little emotion - not hard, but "Hmm, have you considered what working for a boss is like?" Then follow up with:

1. when you marry, you marry someone you love and respect. Bosses come with the job.
2. Marriage is a sacred covenant, not a breakable contract (yes, I'm old fashioned - so is my daughter)

3, it is a rare husband who is a micro-manager, there are plenty of bosses who are. (It comes with the territory of being a strong Directive type)

4. If you choose marry a true Christian, your responsibility as a wife to submit corresponds to his responsibility to be willing to lay down his life, if necessary, for you.
5. He has the responsibility to provide for your needs as well - you are not responsible to provide for your own, as you are under a boss. Husbands are also someone who come home to you and want you there....