I disagree. It’s a racist slur, no matter how used, just like honkey, cracker and wetback (to name a few) and all the other slurs created specifically as a label for a certain race. There are assholes, b$%tches, and bratty children in all races, and to use racial slurs, at any person, in retaliation for their actions, is merely a sign of ignorance and racism, period. It is not justified, no matter what, and to then reward an ignorant, person by sending money to her? Bottom line, a non racist person doesn’t have those words in their vocabulary.