I was too, whatever kind of on the spectrum I am, to understand the white culture I was a part of much better than other ones I viewed from the outside. It’s ironic because it leads to me personally being the type of person who does well in a (responsibly vetted) mixed culture setting, but seeing it all objectively from the outside makes the unfair bias against whites too blatant to ignore or justify.

Once you get a little out of your own bubble and see that what works for you doesn’t work for most people, it’s easy to not get bent out of shape when most people, white included, want to live around mostly people who are racially and culturally similar to them, because that’s what usually works best.