I try to stick to the most important things going on. I'm a Christian so I believed her when she forgave the assassin. I find it quite hard to believe she could marsry Kirk, have children with him, indicate a strong, loving marriage, and be involved with what some of you accuse her of. But. I will believe it if there is ever actual evidence, and not just rumors and assumptions. In regard to "grifting": Did she personally benefit financially from Kirk's death, or did the organization benefit due to "sympathy donations"?