Only the parent who has custody should get the blame. If the baby mama is getting child support and/or welfare she should at least have to keep tabs on the kids....
The welfare system created this mess in the first place. Mothers are incentivized to stay single to get that check. Then the courts most often side with the mother and give majority custody to her. Children need a patriarchal presence to round out their upbringing.
Yeah blame the adult that actually stayed, she should’ve ran off like the “Dad” and left the child to be raised and funded on your tax dollars. That way they can just raise them (and your tax dollars) and no one goes to jail.
But if we’re capable of using more than one braincell at a time, the parent that should be going to jail, is the one guilty of ABANDONMENT and neglect.
Only the parent who has custody should get the blame. If the baby mama is getting child support and/or welfare she should at least have to keep tabs on the kids....
The welfare system created this mess in the first place. Mothers are incentivized to stay single to get that check. Then the courts most often side with the mother and give majority custody to her. Children need a patriarchal presence to round out their upbringing.
Yeah blame the adult that actually stayed, she should’ve ran off like the “Dad” and left the child to be raised and funded on your tax dollars. That way they can just raise them (and your tax dollars) and no one goes to jail.
But if we’re capable of using more than one braincell at a time, the parent that should be going to jail, is the one guilty of ABANDONMENT and neglect.