I've told him and my mom but they tend to put too much trust in typical medical interventions. He is supposed to go to a doctor about they say it might be a clot. Him and my mom had the agreement they wouldn't get the shot but he did anyway (behind her back) because his work mandated it. That is his price to pay when you know you shouldn't be a guinea pig in the first place.
I may not like the decision, but the bigger picture is you do not have to go there for your education or employment. Everyone needs to grow a spine and start hitting them where it hurts the most...money. It will create a way for us to literally decimate the things we hate most. It is easy to say, but we have to start relying on God more. Call their bluffs, and if they still want the vaccine wait them out, in the next year there will be plenty of jobs to choose from once the vaxxed become sick or die.
Adopting snow flake babies is cheaper than adopting children traditionally. I don't know what part of the country you're in but in Colorado there was a place in Loveland that had frozen embryos for implantation. I think those places can work with a woman's cycle as well if you didn't want to do the hormone route. Best of luck to you guys, I will say a prayer for you.