I have seen a lot of families get jacked up because of the political climate over the past four years. A female client of mine woke up around March of this year, and it has utterly destroyed her whole relationship with her family.
Long time Democrat, but has seen through all of the anti-American, anti-individual rhetoric that the establishment has taken on. But her children - even though they had gone to a wealthy private school - have been fully indoctrinated to be full on communists. The husband is a dog of the media, as well.
It is utterly heartbreaking to hear. But this is why marriage is not one that is necessarily built from 'love' as a feeling. Sexual attraction and personal compatibilities do not account for much when a philosophical world view is heavily challenged when the couple never really resolved what that world view ever really was to begin with.
And even if they did, there are many aspects that people are just learning about how they view an individual to a nation. But all of this was well understood by the ancients through the lens of masculinity and femininity.
I still point to that as being the beginning of the unravelling of our civilization. We let masculinity become weak, and femininity is doing what it does best in eroding and destroying civilization once it gets into power.
And that is entirely our fault. Like the saying goes - it is always the man's fault.
That's what I'm having a problem with... last four years were emotional, exciting and hopeful for me. If I was an airplane, it's like I flew into the side of a mountain. The letdown is almost unbearable, and my gloating wife has... you haven't seen a hopeless case of TDS yet. I have never seen such hatred.
I am in the same situation in reverse as you can see. Thank God almighty that I had the vasectomy. ?
Of course I'm a NATZEE, racist, misogynist and I belong in a mental hospital, that's a foregone conclusion. ? Yes, she really screamed it at me-right out of the Soviet manual.
Well, men and women are different. And, definitionally, it is because women are inherently feminine, whereas men are demanded to be masculine (and that is not to say men are inherently masculine. Inheritance, as a concept, is feminine in nature).
Men have to become masculine. If that doesn't happen, they are at a distinct disadvantage when up against women in the long run.
What you are experiencing is what happens when we weaken masculinity. And that starts with, first, fraternities. The "old boys clubs" existed for a reason (and was also attacked for a reason - both justified in their happenings).
The next was a direct attack on our higher reasoning - our definitions, our higher institutions of learning, our governments.
They do this so that they can control our base masculine virtues - which is our ability to create, and our ability to produce.
They can't eliminate masculinity in its entirety - otherwise, who is around to pay the bills? The reality is women don't need to understand this - they know it, inherently (as they are feminine).
Problem is...most men enter into marriages having zero undestanding of any of this -and it leads to marriages like yours.
But the best thing is, as a man, you can always take control of yourself. You can always cut out that which bothers you. You can always begin to develop your relationship with God (which is the basis of your higher rationalization).
And the from that, you can find like minded men that you can develop relationships with, and regain your fraternity.
Being born a man means discovering and walking this path. The universe demands it - and the women in our lives push us in this manner.
And the way they do it is rarely pleasurable.
That's why wives, in particular, were always lamented. Because after all - you can't live with them, you can't live without them.
And that's just true.
Develop the faith, brother. Find your friends. Put your relationship with God as the priority. Everything else will begin to shape up.
I have seen a lot of families get jacked up because of the political climate over the past four years. A female client of mine woke up around March of this year, and it has utterly destroyed her whole relationship with her family.
Long time Democrat, but has seen through all of the anti-American, anti-individual rhetoric that the establishment has taken on. But her children - even though they had gone to a wealthy private school - have been fully indoctrinated to be full on communists. The husband is a dog of the media, as well.
It is utterly heartbreaking to hear. But this is why marriage is not one that is necessarily built from 'love' as a feeling. Sexual attraction and personal compatibilities do not account for much when a philosophical world view is heavily challenged when the couple never really resolved what that world view ever really was to begin with.
And even if they did, there are many aspects that people are just learning about how they view an individual to a nation. But all of this was well understood by the ancients through the lens of masculinity and femininity.
I still point to that as being the beginning of the unravelling of our civilization. We let masculinity become weak, and femininity is doing what it does best in eroding and destroying civilization once it gets into power.
And that is entirely our fault. Like the saying goes - it is always the man's fault.
It honestly is.
That's what I'm having a problem with... last four years were emotional, exciting and hopeful for me. If I was an airplane, it's like I flew into the side of a mountain. The letdown is almost unbearable, and my gloating wife has... you haven't seen a hopeless case of TDS yet. I have never seen such hatred.
I am in the same situation in reverse as you can see. Thank God almighty that I had the vasectomy. ?
Of course I'm a NATZEE, racist, misogynist and I belong in a mental hospital, that's a foregone conclusion. ? Yes, she really screamed it at me-right out of the Soviet manual.
Here: https://psychology.wikia.org/wiki/Political_abuse_of_psychiatry_in_the_Soviet_Union
She might be right on the misogynist part. All the dem psychopaths now are women and her hatred is just about finishing the job.
I'm "keeping the ship in the air," but I can't get any climb power. It's tough.
Thanks for letting me vent!
Well, men and women are different. And, definitionally, it is because women are inherently feminine, whereas men are demanded to be masculine (and that is not to say men are inherently masculine. Inheritance, as a concept, is feminine in nature).
Men have to become masculine. If that doesn't happen, they are at a distinct disadvantage when up against women in the long run.
What you are experiencing is what happens when we weaken masculinity. And that starts with, first, fraternities. The "old boys clubs" existed for a reason (and was also attacked for a reason - both justified in their happenings).
The next was a direct attack on our higher reasoning - our definitions, our higher institutions of learning, our governments.
They do this so that they can control our base masculine virtues - which is our ability to create, and our ability to produce.
They can't eliminate masculinity in its entirety - otherwise, who is around to pay the bills? The reality is women don't need to understand this - they know it, inherently (as they are feminine).
Problem is...most men enter into marriages having zero undestanding of any of this -and it leads to marriages like yours.
But the best thing is, as a man, you can always take control of yourself. You can always cut out that which bothers you. You can always begin to develop your relationship with God (which is the basis of your higher rationalization).
And the from that, you can find like minded men that you can develop relationships with, and regain your fraternity.
Being born a man means discovering and walking this path. The universe demands it - and the women in our lives push us in this manner.
And the way they do it is rarely pleasurable.
That's why wives, in particular, were always lamented. Because after all - you can't live with them, you can't live without them.
And that's just true.
Develop the faith, brother. Find your friends. Put your relationship with God as the priority. Everything else will begin to shape up.
Nice post-thank you for this ??