Pray about things...good advice. Has she given specific examples of parts she doesn't see.? Or is she feeling left out when you spend your time on so called conspiracy theories. Maybe she still cares what other people think. Form your conversations on parts you already see eye to eye on. Slowly expand from there. Keep it fun. What about..insert topic..? Listen to her responses. Don't be too quick to shoot her ideas down. Persuade not lecture. These ideas are hard to accept at first. The idea that the institutions we are raised to trust are actually so full of evil is disorienting. As a woman, I get frustrated when my husbands communication sounds critical rather than conversational. Marriage is too important to give up on too quickly. It might take some time and work to get there. Keep trying. How hard are you willing to work on red pilling others? I assume you would work harder to get on the same page as your wife. If these are topics you are sounding obsessed over she might just be afraid. Afraid for the future under this government and worried about what she can do. I suggest you find a way to be her partner through the difficult times.