Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
There are several "red pill" techniques, including:
Option 2) is more likely to succeed. Remember Q used the "Socratic Method" of asking questions as well.
Hmm. I go for #1 most of the time, because I'm usually out of patience with stupid people being to stupid to notice ANYTHING.
Option 2 never seems to lead anywhere with these blockheads.
I get it, I do, but how long do we have to wait for people......?
I feel your pain but, realistically, option 2 is the only way. The trick is to construct clever enough questions. It takes practice and patience.
So did Jesus, both for those who were at least open to what He had to say and those who were not. The idea is to get them thinking, whether or not they agree.