This is less of a shitpost and more of just me having mild frustration in my generation. I've pretty much given up on ever getting married, seeing how big of a mine field dating is these days.
Anyway, these have been my dating criteria for a couple years now:
- Weighs less than me (185lbs @ 5'11")
- Doesn't have tattoos whose total area of all tattoos cover more than 5 inches squared.
- Doesn't smoke.
- Never married.
- I'm fine with kids only if the father is gone for good.
- Has plans to pay off student loans in less than 10 years.
- Less than $1,000 in debt on all credit cards.
A couple decades ago, I'm pretty sure these were not unreasonable. But today... Good luck finding anyone who meets the above outside a convent.
I only bring this up because I realized something today.
The first line... "Weighs less than me."
The old defense girls used to use doesn't work anymore.
The snap-to is "You can't demand women weigh less than you because women are built differently than men."
That argument doesn't work now, because admitting that means they agree with the idea that "trans women" aren't women.
Either I'm sexist or they are transphobic.
They can't have it both ways, and in this current political climate being transphobic is worse than sexist, so I'll always have the upper hand in calling them a bigot.
Using Liberal Logic, I can argue that all fat women are all transphobic.
Checkmate, BIGots.
Use this knowledge to your heart's content.
Do you have hobbies or associations that would enable you to expand your personal network? There are good people out there (who know more good people) but they may not be on LifeLog or dating apps. Good luck.
Shooting range.
Pray. A big change is coming, who knows how things are shaping up. But prayer can only help.
Sounds like my daughters gonna have a lot of great men to choose from. She's only 21. But she is unvaxed, extremely sweet and loyal, no debt & she's gorgeous 😍
Hang in there! If we really end up going through a mass death & extreme chaos, there will be many humbled & ready for lasting love in the end.
I have similar criteria. I'm 27 and can't find a decent women to save my life. I own a house. Make roughly 6 figures with zero debt besides a small mortgage, plus im in shape. A one night stand is no problem, but thats not what I want or look for. Our generation is just messed up. Especially the females. The men have become feminine for the most part. It's tough, there is no doubt.
Here's a list of my dating criteria:
And... so does my dog. If my dog don't likem - I don't likem... LOL!!! Well, I'm married and not looking - but if I were looking.. :)
I think your terms are reasonable. I'd consider looking somewhere in Eastern Europe if you want to tick most of your boxes.
I am a ladypede, and I am particularly annoyed with the fact that overweight women are celebrated in modern western culture. I very occasionally watch foreign (different culture/language) media channels, and it's very satisfying to see that they shamelessly call out overweight people, particularly women, as women are expected to be healthy, which means not overweight. Just recently I saw a Q&A with a medical professional who said right into the camera that her patients use excuses such as being big boned, and her response is no, you are not 'big boned', you have been eating too much.
And while I'm on the subject, real achievements by women are celebrated there. And it's also still totally ok to say hey, you're not only smart but beautiful, too without any bs sexism claims.
Honestly can’t imagine trying to date in today’s society.
Maybe get on an inter-mural sports team? People who are trying to be physically active tend to hang out with like minded people. Or CrossFit?
Are there any co-ed sports teams at your local church?
As written below, the more people you meet who share your goals / ideals, the more they may introduce you to similar people.
Gold
Do what Trump did and pick foreign women. Start with Slovenia.
Regrettably, there's no guarantee that your pick won't grow fat but the mother is often a good guide.
You might avoid those who committed adultry ( sexual confusion, breaking up families) &/or had abortion, drug addicts ( heavy users), those w/ bad relation w/ family unless good reason, unless actual true remorse, repentence...
It has been my experience that you never find anything that you're actively looking for. In order to find it, you have to stop looking for it. Let it find you.
He said no fat chicks, so unfortunately, yes