to the point she is threatening divorce if I don’t get jabbed.
She’s now demanding we go to couples therapy for her mental health.
You married a rattlesnake.
As far as the vaccine goes - the choice is yours. Either you continue to risk upsetting this clear cut control freak to the point that she divorces you, or you cave.
You're in a hard place, since you have children with her - I'd have been more thorough in assessing her beliefs, but you're not me, and you were probably more trusting. Marriage isn't a simple, reversible mistake - it is a contract that Biblically should only be broken in cases of adultery. Needless to say, some people want to get to hell as fast as they can.
Your options are simple, because she is mentally unstable and will not allow you anything unless the divorce is purely a bluff:
(A) Work hard to convince a human landmine not to explode
or
(B) cave for the vaccine, hope you get the placebo, and keep everyone updated if there are side effects, and ensure that you have close contact and superior documentation to take these people down if you get the real thing and it harms you.
(C), which would be commit her to a mental institution, is probably not an option. Thank God my wife is nothing like that.
I can not emphasize enough that a person who makes threats as she has, and demands that a mental health consultant step into her life, is dangerous.
Ladypede here. Just a word of warning on caving. If you cave to this you'll be expected to cave to vaxing your kids next. Just like the government - chipping away at freedoms one step at a time.
I wasn’t awake when we were married. We both thought Obama was going to change everything. How naive I was. 2016 and p!zza gate woke me up. Followed Q from the first drops. Here we are now.
My situation is like yours, I was very left leaning and married someone similar, then I changed and she didn't. She resents me for changing my mind and not remaining static in my views.
I have resolved to wait it out until such evidence arrives that shows her what's really happening. It will upset her because her ego is strongly attached to socialism as are her friends and family. She is also a herd beast and tells me that I am wrong just because I am in the minority. I think neither is true.
You married a rattlesnake.
As far as the vaccine goes - the choice is yours. Either you continue to risk upsetting this clear cut control freak to the point that she divorces you, or you cave.
You're in a hard place, since you have children with her - I'd have been more thorough in assessing her beliefs, but you're not me, and you were probably more trusting. Marriage isn't a simple, reversible mistake - it is a contract that Biblically should only be broken in cases of adultery. Needless to say, some people want to get to hell as fast as they can.
Your options are simple, because she is mentally unstable and will not allow you anything unless the divorce is purely a bluff:
(A) Work hard to convince a human landmine not to explode
or
(B) cave for the vaccine, hope you get the placebo, and keep everyone updated if there are side effects, and ensure that you have close contact and superior documentation to take these people down if you get the real thing and it harms you.
(C), which would be commit her to a mental institution, is probably not an option. Thank God my wife is nothing like that.
I can not emphasize enough that a person who makes threats as she has, and demands that a mental health consultant step into her life, is dangerous.
Ladypede here. Just a word of warning on caving. If you cave to this you'll be expected to cave to vaxing your kids next. Just like the government - chipping away at freedoms one step at a time.
I wasn’t awake when we were married. We both thought Obama was going to change everything. How naive I was. 2016 and p!zza gate woke me up. Followed Q from the first drops. Here we are now.
My situation is like yours, I was very left leaning and married someone similar, then I changed and she didn't. She resents me for changing my mind and not remaining static in my views.
I have resolved to wait it out until such evidence arrives that shows her what's really happening. It will upset her because her ego is strongly attached to socialism as are her friends and family. She is also a herd beast and tells me that I am wrong just because I am in the minority. I think neither is true.
I totally get where you are coming from.