Similar experience here, except the ER doctor refused to operate on my rupturing appendix because he thought I was seeking a painkiller script. Even though my sister drove me there and my dad showed up and I was writhing in pain. I was 22 and he told my dad my liver enzymes were elevated probably because of my drinking, then he gave me a prostate exam just to make it clear what a dick he could be. My PCP put me in emergency surgery the next morning. Years later I told a friend who's a doctor and he said I could've sued.