Xiden creates a logical fallacy by equating TV commercials with reality:
Based on small glimpses of culture, one might assume half or more of all relationships involve some sort of race-mixing. If a person who had no information about the US or Europe were to see our television, magazine, billboard, and storefront advertisements, he might assume there were virtually zero normal white men anywhere to be found. The combination of white women with black men is hands down, the most common mixed-race couple depicted in advertising; that combination will be the focus of this essay.
A study of over two million online dating interactions revealed distinct racial preferences between groups. White women responded most frequently to white men, and least frequently to black men. Sexually transmitted disease rates per the 2016 Center for Disease Control speak for themselves.
In terms of combined median incomes of interracial marriages, black husbands with white wives earned the lowest amount of any other combination. The black husband and white wife combination were also the least educated. Of the interracial combinations, marriages between whites and blacks were found to be the least stable, and the most likely to result in divorce. The divorce rate is higher in all interracial marriages for white women relative to a white marriage.
A 2015 study examined the outcomes of women that have children with black men, the results were staggering. Currently, 70% of black children are born out of wedlock, however when the mother is white and the father black, the rate jumps to 97%. 98% of white mothers studied reported the father does not support their children financially, 97% report the father is not in the child’s life, and 97% of the women have used welfare to help support themselves and their children. Only 10% of women that have children with black men out of wedlock end up marrying. The vast majority of white women that have children with black men live far below the poverty line.
A 2013 study of intimate partner violence in relationships, surveyed nearly ten-thousand people, the authors hypothesized that interracial couples would experience higher levels of violence compared to intra-racial relationships. They found that compared to white relationships, both black couples and interracial couples experience statistically significant higher levels of relationship violence.
Black guy here.
I have dated various women of different ethnic groups. From my experience with women.
Yes.. a white women would naturally look towards a white men. Because if that's all she has grown up with.
That's the comfortable default.
If she is in an situation that she gets to know a black guy like me.
Then it's a completely different experience.
That will come down to GAME!!!!
If a black guy like me. Has better GAME to talk to a woman vs a white guy.
I am going to get a date over the white guy.
It has been proven.
That women do not go by LOOKS! Women go by how you make them FEEL!!
And when we talk about culture!
Can you please list out the MAJOR cultural differences between
an American "WHITE MAN" vs "BLACK MEN".
I am hoping you can do this without listing a bunch of fake POP CULTURE.
The social engineering that you see. Will only make a white women believe that it's ok to seek other options.
But in reality.
The man still has to have GAME on his own. In order to get that date.
So if you are a white man. JUST UP YOUR DATING GAME!
No commerical can replace that.
Let me ask you.
How do you think dating psychology works?
Do you think it is as simple as.
Therefore its just going to work??
How do you win her over when another white men is after her as well?
These OTHER men would be white guys as well.
So what does this mean. When you have kids and a family.
You still need GAME to keep the ROMANCE interesting. If you do not keep that part interesting.
That romantic spark will start to diminish. And your relationship will start to shift over to a more PLATONIC relationship of being married. But you will feel more like friends and not romantic partners.
Sex and Money are some of the top reasons for divorce. That's human nature.
lol Up my dating game?
see bro... that's just it... you brothers want to hit that pussy and that is about it.
The data backs it up.
I'm 24 years married to the same woman. I've never wandered and neither has she.
You have no idea what my world is like, Casanova. And that is the sad part.
Ok..
So you are saying.
That you do not have to BUILD ATTRACTION with a woman???
That you do not have to make her FEEL something???
THANK YOU!!!
Dating is a COMPETITIVE thing.
You have to KEEP ATTRACTION going with someone in a relationship. It takes WORK!!
Said the unmarried man with zero children.
If it all came down to game, then the billion dollar advertising campaign for miscegenation would be superfluous.
Let me ask you.
How do you think dating psychology works?
Do you think it is as simple as.
Therefore its just going to work??
How do you win her over when another white men is after her as well?
Talented black people who don’t need affirmative action to succeed are resentful of it because many people assume it was needed. There are black men with game or earned non-woke status who would do ok without all of the pro-black propaganda, but do they know enough to resent the weird favoritism from the anti-white establishment?
In the 20th century a cheesy guy getting rejected would rationalize that the woman’s a lesbian. In the 21st century, a cheesy black guy getting rejected by a nonblack woman rationalizes that she’s the R-word. The R-word weaponization is another benefit for blacks from the general woke propaganda. I’ve seen enough cheesy, thirsty game from black guys to know that those who are objective and honorable enough not to want special favors from the devious establishment are few and far between.
While the billion dollar BM-WF advertising campaign exists, people with common sense who see you with a white woman won’t assume that you have good game. They’ll figure that she’s weak minded and therefore not much of a prize. They’ll figure she either was brainwashed by the propaganda, or she was guilted by you accusing her of being the R-word. These assumptions might not be fair to you personally, but if that’s the case and if you care, you should speak out against the woke propaganda. Tell the wokesters that you don’t want their crutch.
I 100% agree. I am anti-woke for sure.
I am against the message of forcing wokeness on people.
Here is the thing.
Black people as a whole aren't asking for CRT.
It is small elite group of people. Who have a microphones that reaches millions of people.
They are the ones trying to set culture.
The Woke Culture is also apart of Cancel Culture.
Now..
I do push back against white people who blindly run with group-think.
You can't have it both ways as the other guy mentioned on here.
You can't say I am from freedom of thought and individualism. Then all of sudden push a "white" vs "black" narrative.
That plays into the reason of why CRT exist in the first place.
So it's also up to both white and black people. To evolve our thinking and see people as individuals as well.
That's not a hard concept to follow. If you have experiences with multiple cultures and different people.
If I was white and had the same mindset and experieneces.
If I saw a white women with a black men.
I would not think that's because of CRT and Woke Culture. Because in reality.
Interracial marriage and dating. Is nothing really new at this point.
It's been around for enough time.
Now...
If this was a year after Jim Crow south. And this woke culture came out of no where. Then I saw tons of black guys with white women.
Yes.. during that time period. I would say to myself.
No way would something like that happen so fast.
But in reality.
Interracial dating happens more than you think. Yes it's not the mass majority of course.
But it's nothing new.
GAME is not all there is. The season in people's lives when they play hard, it seems to matter most of all, doesn't it? But in life, things need to pass the test of time, and until people have been together 2-3 years, they do not even know each other. Illusions don't fall until that much time as passed.
Game makes sure a person never has to succeed at real relationships. It is avoidance. You can't hold off the real stuff forever, though. Getting older and being alone because you could never commit, it is fkn sad.
GAME is not about treating someone like an OBJECT.
GAME is about understanding how to build winning relationships. I suggest you read a book called
"How to win friends and influence people".
In the dating world. There is a harsh reality of something called "LOSING" my friend.
Meaning that some people that you are interested in. Will REJECT who you are. Will REJECT what you even look like.
Why they call is game.
Because you have to understand how to make a relationship FUN and EXCITING!
You cannot just expect to have a normal conversation and expect a woman to be interested in you for ever.
There are COMPETITORS that will come along.
That's why they call is a dating game.
Because there is natural competiton for the person you are with.
When I say you have to have game.
You have to understand. That even if you are married.
Some other person might secretly try to take away what you have.
So you need to UP your game to keep the relationship fun and growing.
That's human nature.