That is not encouraging. What it implies is that you have a husband who thinks the best interest of his child will be served by violating your trust. Think about that carefully. How can that be possible, in the long run? What kind of "best interest" would that be? It turns out to be jabbed with potential death or disability from an experimental therapy whose effects are, by definition, unknown---when your child is in a category that has the least to fear from this "disease."
I am not saying that the validity of the choice this husband made was a good or sound one - that is another discussion. My position here is that this husband was more than likely convinced in his own mind that he was doing what he thought what was best for his child, despite what his wife's position was on the matter. No matter how misinformed or misguided his decision may have been, he had to have been strongly motivated by his own convictions in order to do something like this behind his wife's back without her knowledge. That is my point.
What has been done, has been done. Now the problem is what this couple is going to do moving forward. If this wife can speak with her husband about why he did what he did, which was clearly a gross violation of trust, they are not going to be able to move forward together. If they are going to keep this marriage intact, for the sake of each other and their child, they are going to have to come to some kind of understanding or they will be doomed. That is my only point. The fact that this husband acted against the wishes of his wife, the mother of their child, speaks to some serious problems in the marriage that this incident has brought to the surface. The plandemic has pushed many families to the brink - just what the evil has been striving for. The family is the bedrock of our society. Destroy the family and the society is destroyed. It breaks my heart to hear of the struggles many families are having - especially at this time of year. May God grant them wisdom to navigate the difficult days ahead.
The pandemic is putting us under strain, and under strain there is less energy to sustain a false pretense. The husband showed his true colors. He already made vows to his wife when he was married. How can he now resort to vows again? This marriage is shattered by what he did. You are just trying to be hopeful when there is no hope. Hope to put the marriage back together again? Just like what it was---before he broke it? He would break it again. Who would want to go through a second experience?
Now, if he were to approach his wife in great contrition, remorse, and repentance, seeking remediation, and pleading for forgiveness, charity, and forbearance, that might be a basis for hope. But nothing less.
That is not encouraging. What it implies is that you have a husband who thinks the best interest of his child will be served by violating your trust. Think about that carefully. How can that be possible, in the long run? What kind of "best interest" would that be? It turns out to be jabbed with potential death or disability from an experimental therapy whose effects are, by definition, unknown---when your child is in a category that has the least to fear from this "disease."
I am not saying that the validity of the choice this husband made was a good or sound one - that is another discussion. My position here is that this husband was more than likely convinced in his own mind that he was doing what he thought what was best for his child, despite what his wife's position was on the matter. No matter how misinformed or misguided his decision may have been, he had to have been strongly motivated by his own convictions in order to do something like this behind his wife's back without her knowledge. That is my point.
What has been done, has been done. Now the problem is what this couple is going to do moving forward. If this wife can speak with her husband about why he did what he did, which was clearly a gross violation of trust, they are not going to be able to move forward together. If they are going to keep this marriage intact, for the sake of each other and their child, they are going to have to come to some kind of understanding or they will be doomed. That is my only point. The fact that this husband acted against the wishes of his wife, the mother of their child, speaks to some serious problems in the marriage that this incident has brought to the surface. The plandemic has pushed many families to the brink - just what the evil has been striving for. The family is the bedrock of our society. Destroy the family and the society is destroyed. It breaks my heart to hear of the struggles many families are having - especially at this time of year. May God grant them wisdom to navigate the difficult days ahead.
The pandemic is putting us under strain, and under strain there is less energy to sustain a false pretense. The husband showed his true colors. He already made vows to his wife when he was married. How can he now resort to vows again? This marriage is shattered by what he did. You are just trying to be hopeful when there is no hope. Hope to put the marriage back together again? Just like what it was---before he broke it? He would break it again. Who would want to go through a second experience?
Now, if he were to approach his wife in great contrition, remorse, and repentance, seeking remediation, and pleading for forgiveness, charity, and forbearance, that might be a basis for hope. But nothing less.