Perhaps set a hard date on which you’ll go for divorce if your efforts to wake her haven’t succeeded - especially if she’s gone further left/asleep. Edit: oh no the god fearing folk are downvoting at the mention of divorce.
Not sure why you got downvoted. This is a woman who has sex with her husband's friends (if it happened once, it happened thrice) - not wife material. I don't care how long ago OP thinks this was. Time to cut your losses and enjoy your life.
God never asked the government to get involved in marriage. The institution has been corrupted by human hand. There's nothing "sacred" about the modern marriage - it's a perversion of what the creator intended.
OP got involved with someone before his brain was fully developed, a woman who clearly has no respect for him, and it's not right for others to shame him for having thoughts of leaving. At 52, we should be primarily concerned with taking care of ourselves and those who are deserving of our love. Not wasting time on some lunatic who will never develop empathy.
Perhaps set a hard date on which you’ll go for divorce if your efforts to wake her haven’t succeeded - especially if she’s gone further left/asleep. Edit: oh no the god fearing folk are downvoting at the mention of divorce.
Marriage is not a short-term contract. It's a lifelong link for extremely important reasons.
I can't believe I just read someone whine about their life partner on a research board...🤢
Pray for new fire in your marriage and God will give it to you. Do you think He wants to separate you two? Of course not!!!
I've seen many get divorced for utterly selfish reasons. It always starts with disrespect in the relationship. Give what you want to get, fren.
Not downvoting you. But divorce is supposed to be a last resort, and it takes more than petty disagreement to reach that point.
Supposed by whom?
Not sure why you got downvoted. This is a woman who has sex with her husband's friends (if it happened once, it happened thrice) - not wife material. I don't care how long ago OP thinks this was. Time to cut your losses and enjoy your life.
Because God. It’s axiomatic and there can be no debate. Heathens shall be downvoted.
God never asked the government to get involved in marriage. The institution has been corrupted by human hand. There's nothing "sacred" about the modern marriage - it's a perversion of what the creator intended.
OP got involved with someone before his brain was fully developed, a woman who clearly has no respect for him, and it's not right for others to shame him for having thoughts of leaving. At 52, we should be primarily concerned with taking care of ourselves and those who are deserving of our love. Not wasting time on some lunatic who will never develop empathy.
Right.