This is what winning the culture back looks like: “I Regret Being a Slut.” An essay by a former? feminist.
(bridgetphetasy.substack.com)
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If I could only get my best friend/sista from another mista to realize that slutdom is not the answer... Will b sending this to her. Maybe she'll get the hint...
Not just leaving, tho, although the damage from that is likely to be great.
Relationship with father in general. Close? Good? Trust? Love? Had no real idea about this until I saw how my daughter was impacted by me and my behavior.
I don’t know about just a father leaving being the issue. I had both parents home but felt no love and my mother and sister picked on me about my looks and weight for years. I did go searching for someone to love me and ended up just searching for guys to treat/use me the way I felt inside so at least my feelings seemed justified
That is truly sad. I pray you have turned this around for yourself and found the support and love that you deserve.
Figuring it out and acknowledging it has helped but things are a struggle. Avoidance helps keep me from repeating the pattern but makes my depression worse. Plus being allow and staying to myself makes my anxiety/social awkwardness worse. Struggle is real
I'll send it to her if you want.. just give me her number.
Kidding lol
sorta
Many people are majorly brainwashed and/or groomed by social media and women are especially susceptible for some reason. My theory is that their emotional nature blocks/overrides their discernment and critical thinking skills (assuming they had any to begin with).
My theory is bc women are in general social creatures, more so than men. Their need for social acceptance is higher and hence fall for social conditioning easier. Obviously generalizing, there are great many logical smart women on the other side of the spectrum, just talking about that middle bell curve area.
I heard an old saying that I feel sums it all up well - men are waffles and women are spaghetti.
Men have compartmentalized thinking. They can concentrate on one box at a time without being distracted. While in a particular box, men have the ability to focus on what is in that box with an intensity that most women seem to lack. But at the same time, most men cannot deal with another box until the one they are currently in is put back on the shelf - career box, family box, wife box, sex box, fishing box, etc. Men tend to stay in the box that gives them the most satisfaction while avoiding those boxes that are less satisfying. They also have the ability to not be in any box at all and just be - something most women can't fathom. I call it box decompression.
Women live lives where everything is connected to everything else in the bowl. Its a tangled mess to the average man trying to figure it out - and I think at times to women themselves. The sauce that clings it all together is emotion. Thier mind is able to go many places at the same time and not get dizzy from the experience. This connectiveness gives them the ability to multitask working with different strings of spaghetti all at the same time that would bring the average man to a complete standstill. Read the proverbs women in Proverbs 31. That women has a lot going on.
So, God made men and women different. Different, not just on the outside, but he wired our brains differently as well - all to serve different purposes that are supposed to work together for the whole. I think when men and women can finally see our sexual uniqueness beyond just biology and biological function, fully appreciating those qualities unique to their own sex, and can see and appreciate the unique differences in the other, then we may be able to get past some of the BS attempts at homogenization that ultimately are destroying both.