So true. Was married twice and in each case right after we were married they quit their job and wouldnt even make dinner or wash dishes while I was at work supporting him.
The same thing happened to me! Thought I was doing everything right. He was the "boy next door", did chores, had a job and truck. Once we got married it was like a switch flipped. He quit his job, played video games all day, and refused to lift a finger. He later admitted he wanted a lifestyle of being "taken care of". We divorced long ago. He's almost 40 and lives with his Mom, she takes care of him now and he still doesn't work.
So true. Was married twice and in each case right after we were married they quit their job and wouldnt even make dinner or wash dishes while I was at work supporting him.
Supporting “him” I thought it was a typo at first. Wow. What a bum sorry you had to go through that…twice.
W PA men. I divorced them after 3 years of warnings.
Good for you. Hope you find or found a good man
Nope. I noticed when I'm on my own I got plenty of $ for my needs. With a man around I was always broke. Quite happy without that ball-and-chain.
The same thing happened to me! Thought I was doing everything right. He was the "boy next door", did chores, had a job and truck. Once we got married it was like a switch flipped. He quit his job, played video games all day, and refused to lift a finger. He later admitted he wanted a lifestyle of being "taken care of". We divorced long ago. He's almost 40 and lives with his Mom, she takes care of him now and he still doesn't work.