Been going through it for over a year now. My ex committed adultery and fraud, but due to IL’s no-fault laws, I can’t use any of that in court. I get punished instead by having to pay her spousal maintenance and all that. Just like the rest of the judicial system, there’s no justice. I know this is personal to me, but I see stuff like this happening to so many people, and I strongly feel that the attacks on the nuclear family and the feminism crowd have a lot to do with it. The system rewards immorality and criminality, and punishes those who do the right things.
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Good luck Fren. The system has been rigged against fathers since its inception. If you want a good relationship with your kids the best option is to give up any idea of justice and just be as physically close and available to them as possible. Hopefully the criminal family injustice system (designed to destroy family undoubtedly) falls when the rest of it does. Until then, spend as little time as possible in the legal system and stay close and magnanimous with your kids and ex. It’s the only boy way to get what you really want. It’s hard. The system is designed to make you incredulous and angry. All the best!