Our prayers were answered..
My son was in surgery about 8 hours.. he got to his room in the peds ICU about 12 hours post initial registration.. pretty long day for all of us 😅
The procedure went well, his nurse told me he woke up and said he felt "wonderful" this morning.
Today he will try to walk a bit and I am making him an epic smoothie because he loves those.. i am getting him all his favorite foods this week 😋😁
Thanks everyone for your prayers and messages.. it really means the world to us.
He has a rough stretch ahead recovering but he is so strong and hopeful. Precious little man..
Lastly, does anyone have any post surgery wound advice on how best to minimize scarring? Aloe.. mederma..
Bless you all.. I truly love you, Frens. 🥰
... calendula leaves disperse so easily? (decades ago I made my first calendula cream with glycerine and calendula leaves - it was a big mess to make it, heating up the glycerine and later separating it again from the leafs - but helped a lot)
(Edited -> leaf - leaves = I really have difficulties with my grammar today - lol)
Oh...sorry...I thought you were using calendula tincture or extract...or oil...any liquid stirs easily into the coconut oil...I have never made anything from the leaves...I imagine that would be a mess. I wonder if you could just place a calendula leaf on the wound much like the aloe vera leaf. I have never owned a calendula plant...but calendula is an all time winner in my book..............
I mentioned both. Calendula leaves are taken from the flower, yellow-orange like petals. They are very pretty in the garden, blossoming very long and they come again next year. Yes, the extract will be easier to handle. And the aloe vera leaves are really moist, but the calendula leaves are like flower petals.
Well...I only have calendula tincture, oil and ointment so I never messed with the flower...but thanks for the info...I also love coconut oil for everything...take it daily in coffee, give it to my pets in a bowl to lick, use it in my salves, pull...it is the only oil I use...
they look so beautiful and thank you for reminding me to take the more - for everything. I do the oil pulling with it, but next coffee will have the coconut oil in it :-)
If I may jump in here, would making a calendula tincture be like cold-steeping the petals in alcohol, or crushing them mortar-and-pestle and straining, or something else?
(I am no expert - please inform yourself also!)
If you make an alcoholic extract - yes, cold-steep the petals in it. This alcoholic extract will last longer (in a dark bottle) and can be used to be added to coconut oil or in a bath, tea etc.. - BUT this cold-steeping often has to be for 2 - 3 weeks to create the extract.
If you want to cure a sun burn or very light irritation, you could also make only a brew, with hot water poured over the petals and then treating the skin with it (good for kids or daily skin care).
If you want to treat a deeper wound, sometimes it is good that it stays on it for longer time, so you would take coconut oil (goes into the skin) or glycerine (stays very long on the skin's suface - slower process) and heat to make it fluid (but not boiling).
In this hot liquid you put the petals, turn the heat off or better let it slowly get colder while stirring. But after that you have to heat one more time to sift it through a cloth or very fine sift (that was the messy part for me).
If I remember correctly, it is also very good as a tea in case of stomach problems. Calendula is a very soft and kind herb like a loving touch, but a big healer.
Therefore the second name = Marigold :-)