Have you noticed that their sexual identity is always at the forefront of their brains? Everything revolves around it. My sister is gay. My dad had heart surgery. While he was in surgery, we all went to eat at Cracker Barrel. All we got were the coffees we ordered because she announced loudly to the table that Cracker Barrel didn't support gay rights. So the servers avoided our table like the plague & we left. When the dr came out to talk to the family, she pitched a big fit in the waiting room that her wife wasn't being included and blah blah homophobia. All the wife had to do was get up and walk in with the rest of us. Nobody gave a shit. My brother lost his shit that day and reamed her in the parking lot. EVERYTHING is their sexual identity, and they can't operate for an hour without seeing everything through that lens. Meanwhile, we're all just trying to raise our families and live the American dream.