Yesterday, I went in for my first ultrasound, being a new mom and all, I am excited af to bring another future patriot in this world.
I read the article that Dr. Kim wrote about the Vitamin K shot that actually does more harm than good for newborns. I cross checked it across multiple other sources with some pro vax and some anti vax. I did extensive research.
So guess what I found in the OB What to Expect packet? The very last bullet point listed is that vitamin K shot. Predictable lol.
That paragraph consisted of fear porn about cranial bleeding in newborns, and helps with blood clots, mothers can't supply their kids with enough Vitamin K, etc etc. Basically saying that if you don't give your kid this shot within 6 hours, they could die. You know how often that actually happens? 1.8 out of 100,000 newborns or .0018% (correct me if my math sucks here) of children. In the time span of 6 hours after birth, how do I know that I will even be lucid enough from the anesthesia to even comprehend what is going on with my child? How manipulative is the medical industry that they would do something so underhanded like jabbing my baby without my knowledge? I dont know anybody in any generation before me (mid 20s) that has ever had this shot. Cavemen didn't need this, so why does my kid? I didn't get it either!
So I played dumb (really should have recorded this), and asked the doctor about it and played it off like a sheltered and compliant new mom. She explained that fear porn, regurgitated it honestly. And had the nerve to tell me that anything not in the info packet is misinformation, and other parents get their anti vax research from "misinformation from Tik Tok."
How arrogant are these pharma fed docs that they shove down people's throats that they should be the only source of medical information? Have these motherfuckers not had the wake up call, that people are waking up to the massive malpractice that is the entirety of the health-"care" industry? I know a lot more people unwilling to trust their doctor's advice at face value because bullshit can come from anywhere. Basically tldr, if you question your doctor, you're being influenced by "misinformation." These people are stupid.
I don't personally care for Tik Tok, but i know there is some good info out there.
Also, I might switch hospitals if this bullshit keeps up. Advice would be nice, because i felt very disrespected for wanting to be actually informed of what goes into my precious child's body.
First of all, congratulations! Secondly, it would probably be wise to look for a new OB asap, one that you can feel certain will respect your wishes....or consider a home birth.
And make sure your current OB and everyone at her practice know exactly why they are losing you as a patient.
100%
My daughter from Michigan stood up against infant vaccines for her boy, so CPS came after her. She had to endure a year of invasive visits. They threatened to take the baby if she didnt vaccinate him. So, when she had her second child, she allowed the first vaccines in the hospital, then stayed on the move to avoid all the rest. Terrible. Her first child is on the spectrum, has exzema, and suffered rsv. Her unvaccinated child is very healthy.
I do not recommend allowing even the first vaccines, but I recommend fooling the doctor and hospital rather than telling them the truth. Tell them you are following the advice of your other doctor, who said you should wait 6 months to start your child's vaccines because there is a history of exzema, rsv, and other auto-immune diseases in your family. Insist you are following doctor's orders. Don't say you researched it or that you don't believe in vaccines. Your goal is to get out of there without turning them against you.
Also, verbal refusals do not help, anymore. Neither do written ones. We have to have a legal medical directive sent to the hospital by certified mail. Plus, your husband needs to follow everywhere they bring the child. In fact, I would insist the baby just stay with you, if at all possible. The hospital staff is under heavy pressure to comply with CDC.
Of course, the best would be to find an OB who allows you your free will on this and to interview hospitals about their policy to force vaccines or to allow freedom of choice. Still, I wouldn't trust them not to vaccinate your baby, anyway.
Also, in my opinion, there is absolutely no need for a pediatrician (except if the baby needs surgery). Your child can get better treatment from a general family doctor who works for you, not for CDC's schedule of 72 vaccines by the time your child is 18. I found a super good patriot doctor. It is such a relief to trust him.
If you can find that doctor now, you won't be lying when you say your doctor recommends you do not vaccinate the child at the hospital. Of course, they won't know that you never plan to vaccinate your child.
People with children just need to get the hell out of all these communist/fascist states before the government kidnaps their children and either kills or permanently disables them. Move to a safe state. Give up everything you own to protect them if you have to. NOTHING IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR CHILDREN!!
I agree.
I second that. Congrats!! And if I were having my boys all over again I'd have used a midwife and had home births.
I agree with AmberWins.
Home births or birthing at a homeopathic birth center with midwives is the way to go. Find one that teaches courses on what to expect, how to work with your natural motherly instincts, and teaches you the skill set to provide your baby with a natural birth, no drugs.
The medical birth is highly stressful, filled with drugs, tons of beeping sounds, lights, interruptions, etc. In other words, completely unnatural.
A safe, planned, educated home birth with a midwife and doula is the most precious gift you can offer your baby.
And they would listen!!!! Thanks guys
I'd like to do that, idk about how to pay for it lol. Idk if insurance can cover it or how much I need to spend
My doula worked on a sliding scale based on your income.
I second getting a different doctor or midwife, and I recommend getting a doula if you are using an MD. I wound up needing a c-section. The doctor refused to explain why, but the doula did, and it was medically necessary (there are all kinds of stories of doctors lying and saying you need a c-section when you don't). Also, the doctor wanted to give me an unsafe drug and the doula refused to allow it and fought for the safe drug. It never occurred to me that doctors would give unsafe drugs.
They really are God sends aren't they? I have never heard of doulas until today, but will look up options. Real advocates for our baby? Fuck yes
The Doula's are YOUR representative. That is their duty, they don't represent a hospital, insurance, or a drug company. They are people who sincerely want what is best for others - they are angles who haven't gotten their wings yet.
My wife studied to be a Death Doula after losing her mother, and seeing all the help that an informed, non-family, non-fiscally motivated individual could bring to a family, at a time of grief, fear and vulnerability.
A thousand times..................YES!
Exactly! Looking into alternatives now!