Yes, this is the real answer, and it's damning that this is the first whisper I've seen of it.

I made the choice to completely stop drinking before the birth of my first daughter & I don't regret it, don't miss it in the least.

I'd make the argument that, while an occasional beer, wine, cocktail is of course fine, it really seems to me that the average American drinks WAY TF too much.

If you cut your drinking even by half & put that instead into making more money, local political activism, or even going to the gym or for a walk; how much better off would your life be?

Definitely think about it, frens.......