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There is a vicious vaxxed person in my office, who wanted all the unvaxxed locked away and forcibly vaxxed. At the time, I pointed out that they were a walking bioweapon, in retaliation to the venom spewing out of their mouth.
Now in hospital, begging for donated sick days.
Gee.
I am in a moral dilemma.
No, you're NOT in a moral dilemma. You made a decision, they made a decision. It's OK to feel bad and pray for them, but that's NOT a moral dilemma. Do NOT absorb the ramifications of their decision. They were free to make their decision as did you.
No the moral dilemma is due to the presentation of a begging email, asking for donated sick days. I have plenty, but do not feel that I should give any to this person, because of the vitriol that was loudly vented in my face.
Do I turn the other cheek?
I might want to save my donation for others who deserve it.
The JAB is not the relevant issue here. This same dilemma happens in all types of situations. The JAB is just this particular case.
While you have no OBLIGATION, you can assist by offering maybe 1 or 2 of your days. You have no OBLIGATION to give away everything. Taking the "high road" is always a good thing. Your only issue now, is to NOT commit the sin of pride. Maybe offer all the same amount.
You did not require them to take the JAB. (That would be a moral dilemma.) You did not recommend the JAB. (That would also be a moral dilemma.) You did not mislead them about the JAB. (That would also be a moral dilemma.)
You can tell a kid to not put his hand in the fire, but eventually, he will. You job then is to comfort and heal. You can't feel guilty for the kid putting his hand in the fire in the first place.
You're an innocent bystander in this case. Be nice, offer some but you don't have any obligation to sink your own boat. They will be be grateful to receive anything you offer.
This is NOT simple. Many of us do/will have this same issue. We all must decide how to handle this type of issue.
For myself, I decided to be nice, offer whatever I'm comfortable with, but as I said above, you have no requirement to take on their burden. Comfort and heal.
Ask God to help you understand.
thank you
Kek!
Kek indeed.
Does the person still blame all y'all purebloods for his (or her) problems?
Would be interesting to find out, but judging from past behavior, the hospital visit is definitely the fault of the dirty unvaxxed.
Yes, there are some master contortionists of the blame game!
Is your relationship with this person still contentious? I think there is something fun about keeping an "enemy" on their toes, which being magnanimous and giving towards them surely will. Unless they are completely horrible, they will likely re-think some of the more horrible thoughts they have had for you and maybe that stretch us unease they feel will make you happy to think about. Just as an example, I've sometimes wanted to donate money to a raging leftist on reddit who is posting in one of the help forums and then PM them to let them know I'm a Trump supporter.
Damn…said in my head what I wanted to say out loud