Welcome to General Chat - GAW Community Area
This General Chat area started off as a place for people to talk about things that are off topic, however it has quickly evolved into a community and has become an integral part of the GAW experience for many of us.
Based on its evolving needs and plenty of user feedback, we are trying to bring some order and institute some rules. Please make sure you read these rules and participate in the spirit of this community.
Rules for General Chat
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Be respectful to each other. This is of utmost importance, and comments may be removed if deemed not respectful.
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Avoid long drawn out arguments. This should be a place to relax, not to waste your time needlessly.
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Personal anecdotes, puzzles, cute pics/clips - everything welcome
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Please do not spam at the top level. If you have a lot to post each day, try and post them all together in one top level comment
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Try keep things light. If you are bringing in deep stuff, try not to go overboard.
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Things that are clearly on-topic for this board should be posted as a separate post and not here (except if you are new and still getting the feel of this place)
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If you find people violating these rules, deport them rather than start a argument here.
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Feel free to give feedback as these rules are expected to keep evoloving
In short, imagine this thread to be a local community hall where we all gather and chat daily. Please be respectful to others in the same way
You didn't lose your virginity. You gave it to your husband. I was married at 25 and my wife was 24. I never really had the idea "Hey, I just lost my virginity" like I suppose most people do.
Being a nerd myself, I have several unmarried friends. I too would wish for them to be happy, but unfortunately it just doesn't work out for many people.
I have three friends who have successfully met love through dating services. One with Match, one with eHarmony, and my other friend who just got engaged also used eHarmony, I believe. Other friends... I think just being mild-mannered and shy doesn't really work, so they just resign themselves to enjoying their hobbies.
My friend in America said that the new feminist trend is to get married, wreck it, get divorced, and treat it as a practice run. That's insane. Feminists have managed to think of new strategies to wreck society. I saw a video of a new trend of "passport bros," men who end up looking for love from women in foreign countries because they are sick of the crap from American women who have been thoroughly brainwashed. I think a lot of these are black men who want love and commitment and want to avoid the welfare black women who won't have a man in the house.
So I have 3 friends who are unmarried. All three are obese nerds, so that narrows their chances of finding women considerably. Another is an unwitting illegal immigrant from Mexico who ended up stranded in America with no place to go if ever went back to where he is from. His two younger brothers got their greencards but he didn't due to being older or something. Strikingly handsome guy, but he's just a videogame nerd and not good at talking with women. And plus he's into the furry crap. Not the cosplay kinky crap, but just the "Secret of NIMH is a cool movie" type. He went silent several years ago and I think perhaps he was desperate enough to have a gay marriage with his friend he met on a furry forum. Neither are gay, but his friend is a bit of a creep and a stalker and there is no way he's getting married. I suspect they did a fraudulent gay marriage so that my Mexican friend can finally get a greencard. Sad state of affairs for sure.