"I think you are right, it's good to have agreed gender roles. There is crossover in any good marriage and you can find exceptions where say a masculine husband likes his wife being a mechanic. However for the sake of society it's a bad thing to for that to be common. If women do 'male' jobs it undermines the need for men. People may say it doesn't, that men will always be needed, but men will see women doing their kind of work and it will undermine their sense of unique male purpose. For boys learning what a male is, it's demoralizing, distracting or will push them to look elsewhere for meaning. They learn early on that masculinity is labelled toxic and at the same time female aggression towards men is viewed more positively now than in the past. We are in a terrible place in the West where people are not marrying and having families to the extent we need them to. Men need to take the heavy load in the workplace and women need to be homemakers. It just is what it is. Exceptions that do not look like failures (yet) do not make that untrue."
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I am a woman and I agree with this statement. It’s going to be very difficult to get back to a point where women are allowed to be feminine and males are allowed to be masculine again. This has been a long time coming, and what I see is a trend where there is no gender, no identity, no difference between the sexes, and I think it’s a heavy contributor to gender confusion in our children.
Too late - the feminazis already say there is no need for men. Men are merely sperm donors. Public policy has pushed males aside in families, academics, business, art, and on and on. Boys coming up have largely either give up or have gone thug because that's what masculinity has become in their minds. Men are not given strong role models especially encouragement as fathers. Female homemakers are limited because our public policy has demeaned that role and has created an economic environment that even in an intact family, two incomes are frequently needed.
The bible clearly says that we are all different yet part of the same body. We each have different skills and it takes all parts to make a whole. So can we just stop with the holier than thou crap and just get along and try to do the next right thing.
I work with some female mechanics,and don't have much problem with them.......they take all the easy jobs.
Machines are such a core part of the modern world, and knowing how they work and how to repair them can mean life or death in parts of the world. I know you can just drag your vehicle to the local dealership mechanic and not have to think about it other than maybe spazing out if you find out your mechanic has a vagina, but that isn’t a luxury many people can afford in rural areas.
Rural woman know how to work on vehicles and it’s been that way since machines became a core part of the world and how it functions.
Sounds fine; there are bell curves for everything, thus we see effeminate men and strong women, who still are fine in society. No need to convince anyone they need surgery to be who they are.
These people are bullshitted into a co-depedency.