He's nearly 21 and has never had a job. He wakes up every morning eager to do something but never follows through on any plans he makes. One minute he was all amped up about residential pest mitigation and the next he wants to be an inspector for local rivers and help clean up debris... I am honestly frustrated, he won't cook or clean let alone help with our financial struggles.
I really love him with every inch of my heart and soul but I don't know how to get him to contribute more or be more independent. I really don't want to kick him out but I don't think it's fair for him to contribute nothing to our relationship.
I'd really appreciate any thoughts or advice from my frens.
Edit: thank you all for your advice about my dog, I'll see if I can get him to cook but there's no way I'm letting him join the military. He kept that squirrel and neighbors cat out of the yard so I think I'll take him down to the river to fetch sticks.
Edit 2: I have found my kid employment, he is now wrangling small unicorns for work.
Re-read my entire post now. I love people like you, you're now logged in as a wonderful person in my book. I don't have a wife or children of my own but I do believe God has a sense of humor by putting me in this community.
Thanks for the nice words. Your guy is young enough he can easily recover. There are other career surveys out there but I'd suggest creating a junk email account or you'll get thumped by junk email. Best of luck and we're glad you're here.