I disagree with cablez. I've always considered parenthood with someone over "marriage" as being the real commitment. Therefore, I think your marriage is secondary to what your son needs. Even if you have a somewhat "fake" marriage. Give your son till at least like 15 or 16 years of a nuclear family illusion. (and I didn't hear you describe terrible fighting that you're doing in front of your son like cablez assumed).
I'm not against divorce (when children are involved) in all cases. Just most of the time so long as no abuse is occurring or dangers from addiction/alcoholism/mental illnes etc..
I disagree with cablez. I've always considered parenthood with someone over "marriage" as being the real commitment. Therefore, I think your marriage is secondary to what your son needs. Even if you have a somewhat "fake" marriage. Give your son till at least like 15 or 16 years of a nuclear family illusion. (and I didn't hear you describe terrible fighting that you're doing in front of your son like cablez assumed).
I'm not against divorce (when children are involved) in all cases. Just most of the time so long as no abuse is occurring or dangers from addiction/alcoholism/mental illnes etc..