I'm hearing a lot of "we didn't have a choice". Whether it was lose their job, get kicked out of school, or not be allowed to travel. As gently as possible, I've been re-focusing them on the fact they DID have a choice. A horrible one, admittedly, but a choice nevertheless. If the price was high enough, we found a way to avoid the shots. I think the lack of responsibility is a sign of a much bigger problem: Once we reestablish a healthy society, how are they not going to fall right back into the trap in the future?