Thank you man. I've asked her this and she's refused. She claims it costs too much and that she doesn't need therapy and that, if I want, I can go to therapy on my own. I even mentioned it's covered on our insurance and that cost has no relevance. (they're just excuses - she just doesn't want to make things work).
I agree. I told her probably a week ago the exact phrase: "You're the one that wants a divorce and ultimately you're the one that brought chaos to this family - so you're the one that needs to be moving out." if I bring up God, she literally says "Don't quote scripture to me!!!" it's bizarre.
It really is odd. It leaves me wondering if there was an external factor involved, perhaps an old school-friend died (first boyfriend kind of thing) something she doesn't even want to admit to herself?
Either way, it sounds like you're doing everything you can, I can see why you'd be so frustrated.
Thank you man. I've asked her this and she's refused. She claims it costs too much and that she doesn't need therapy and that, if I want, I can go to therapy on my own. I even mentioned it's covered on our insurance and that cost has no relevance. (they're just excuses - she just doesn't want to make things work).
I agree. I told her probably a week ago the exact phrase: "You're the one that wants a divorce and ultimately you're the one that brought chaos to this family - so you're the one that needs to be moving out." if I bring up God, she literally says "Don't quote scripture to me!!!" it's bizarre.
It really is odd. It leaves me wondering if there was an external factor involved, perhaps an old school-friend died (first boyfriend kind of thing) something she doesn't even want to admit to herself?
Either way, it sounds like you're doing everything you can, I can see why you'd be so frustrated.