Welcome to General Chat - GAW Community Area
This General Chat area started off as a place for people to talk about things that are off topic, however it has quickly evolved into a community and has become an integral part of the GAW experience for many of us.
Based on its evolving needs and plenty of user feedback, we are trying to bring some order and institute some rules. Please make sure you read these rules and participate in the spirit of this community.
Rules for General Chat
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Be respectful to each other. This is of utmost importance, and comments may be removed if deemed not respectful.
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Avoid long drawn out arguments. This should be a place to relax, not to waste your time needlessly.
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Personal anecdotes, puzzles, cute pics/clips - everything welcome
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Please do not spam at the top level. If you have a lot to post each day, try and post them all together in one top level comment
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Try keep things light. If you are bringing in deep stuff, try not to go overboard.
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Things that are clearly on-topic for this board should be posted as a separate post and not here (except if you are new and still getting the feel of this place)
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If you find people violating these rules, deport them rather than start a argument here.
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Feel free to give feedback as these rules are expected to keep evolving
In short, imagine this thread to be a local community hall where we all gather and chat daily. Please be respectful to others in the same way
Caring for an ailing parent is not for the faint of heart. My thoughts and prayers are with your mom, your dad and you, anon, that the Lord give you all strength to deal with this difficult situation knowing that He's there with all of you, come what may. I do hope she recovers fully and gets back to much better health. Just do the best you can to comfort and help her and do so with love in your heart -- there's nothing more anyone can be expected to do. God bless you all, anon.
As far as her jewelry is concerned it's best you take all of it back home and leave it in your safe until she gets back in a safe environment.
Thanks for your kind words and prayers. After sitting in ER from 9:30 - 4 finally got results. She had a UTI apparently at least two weeks. They started antibiotics the day before hospital visit and hadn’t kicked in yet. By the end of the day she started speaking some.
I most definitely need strength! The relationship with my mom has always been strained even when I was a small child. Watch the movie, The Help, I’m the little girl ignored by her mom when the new baby brother comes along. It’s not as bad as the movie, big reason I lived beside my grandparents and great grandma and they made up for it. I do believe my mom loved me back then and does now. I was probably too much like my daddy and that didn’t help. (Don’t back down or take junk from people). I had a great childhood other than that. She worked her but off doing things for us. From the trips, clothes, always had a pool in the summer and so much more. We just didn’t get along and I’ve accepted it now and stopped arguing with her at least a decade or more ago. It’s just not worth it. However she’s not the easiest person to be around. Nothing is ever right. But my daddy gets the complaining more than I do. He drank till I was 18 and she went through a lot with him. Verbal abuse hurts as bad as broken bones.
She hasn’t been home in two years. She doesn’t know it, we went through her jewelry a few months ago. My dad wanted me get what I wanted now. I fully expect her to ask about the bracelet when she gets better. She can get it back. I’d rather her enjoy it than sit in the safe. I know there’s the possibility of someone stealing it, can’t worry about things that might happen. Thanks again 🙂