Blacks did not dress or act like this in the 1920's.
Ice Cube said the same people that own the rap labels also own the private prisions.
In my view.
The reason why the hip hop brand took off.
When times where more "Conservative".
People assumed that humans acted more descent.
That's also a lie.
When times become more conservative culturally.
What happens is a major suppression of emotionals that move underground.
Take interracial dating for an example.
The reason why we are seeing more of it now.
Is because it was always there.
The more conservative culture during those times just used shaming tactics and law to "Artifically Suppress" mixed relationships.
That's the flaw of conservative thinking.
All you are doing it taking something exist and shaming people to not do something.
Don't take this the wrong way friend.
But your post SCREAMS that whites need to start to once again "SHAME" white women to ACT and BEHAVE a certain way when it comes to dating, sex, marriage, etc.
Me being a black men.
Hear me when I tell you this.
There are WAY MORE WHITE WOMEN that like black guys than you think.
And over hear in Chicago.
I am seeing a tons of WHITE MEN dating black women.
They are doing so.
Because there isn't anyone social shaming them to the degree of the past.
In my view.
Stop trying to worry about who is dating whom.
I respect your viewpoint. And ultimately you can't control people.
But.
Culture does matter. Its thugs. Not skin color.
A black person in south chicago, or compton
is not the same
as a black british person
or a black person living in south africa, or jamaica.
There are a lot of respectable black people.
But also stereotypes are perpetuated that black men are tougher, have bigger 'bbc's etc.
Which statistically isnt true, thats a health issue not a skin color issue.
Its not skin color that bothers me so much as stereotypes and women getting a fetish based on a false premise.
Or the classic 'ditching a white guy' to go bang a thug.
Even Candace Owens and similar black female commentators noted this.
White suburban women fly to the carribbean for some BBC action while they cheat on thier husband with thugs and black guys.
Or michigan women driving to chicago to get coked up and bang thugs because they are bored.
Or cancun. Pretty much anything in cancun.
Its a cliche.
And it pollutes the waters.
So its not so much skin color.
As it is bad taste.
There is a difference between a white woman dating, for example, WIll Smith or Denzel Washington
And a white woman LOWERING HER STANDARDS to fulfill a false fantasy based on arbitrary cultural stereotypes shoved down the pipe of mtv or tiktok or instagram.
Some white women may date black men with a "bad boy" image because they believe they can change or "clean him up." There’s often a hope that they can help turn his life around.
For example, I grew up in Gary, Indiana, and although I wasn’t involved in street life, I had friends who were. One of them, a guy I knew well, got into a lot of trouble over the years. We lost touch, but years later, his brother passed away from liver failure, and we reconnected at the funeral.
To our surprise, this friend showed up married to a white woman. She had completely transformed him. His kids looked and acted like suburban kids—well-behaved, nothing like the life we knew he came from. We joked with him about his street past, and he admitted that meeting her had changed everything. They met at work, fell in love, and she helped him leave the street life behind. Now, he’s a dedicated father with a job.
This story reflects why some women, particularly those outside of the street life, might be drawn to these men. They believe they can be part of that transformation, helping them leave their past behind. In many cases, they come from families that aren't involved in the same struggles, which further supports the change.
OP sounds like he’s been rejected. Just to OP a message. The type of white girl that dates “thugs”, won’t date you and they won’t date non thug black men. You know what? You dodged a bullet.
Welcome my brother refugee.
I had a white girl tell me how she’d sleep with Lil Wayne cause he looks like he’s good in bed. There’s a “TYPE” that they want. Op needs to look at the Fresh Prince of Bel air to see the dynamics between the thug and conservative black men. If he wants a girl that’s chasing Pookie and Ray Ray, that’s on him. Those girls never stop making bad decisions.
You feel this way because you looking at this wrong in my view.
The better way to label this isn't black or white culture.
It's PRISON CULTURE!
Check out these music videos from Asia.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eHyl9KG9RWA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p6vM08MGoQ8
Some Americans would call this "Acting Black".
That's a lie.
Blacks did not dress or act like this in the 1920's.
Ice Cube said the same people that own the rap labels also own the private prisions.
In my view.
The reason why the hip hop brand took off.
When times where more "Conservative". People assumed that humans acted more descent.
That's also a lie.
When times become more conservative culturally.
What happens is a major suppression of emotionals that move underground.
Take interracial dating for an example.
The reason why we are seeing more of it now. Is because it was always there.
The more conservative culture during those times just used shaming tactics and law to "Artifically Suppress" mixed relationships.
That's the flaw of conservative thinking.
All you are doing it taking something exist and shaming people to not do something.
Don't take this the wrong way friend.
But your post SCREAMS that whites need to start to once again "SHAME" white women to ACT and BEHAVE a certain way when it comes to dating, sex, marriage, etc.
Me being a black men.
Hear me when I tell you this.
There are WAY MORE WHITE WOMEN that like black guys than you think.
And over hear in Chicago.
I am seeing a tons of WHITE MEN dating black women.
They are doing so. Because there isn't anyone social shaming them to the degree of the past.
In my view. Stop trying to worry about who is dating whom.
It's none of our concern.
I respect your viewpoint. And ultimately you can't control people.
But.
Culture does matter. Its thugs. Not skin color.
A black person in south chicago, or compton
is not the same
as a black british person
or a black person living in south africa, or jamaica.
There are a lot of respectable black people.
But also stereotypes are perpetuated that black men are tougher, have bigger 'bbc's etc.
Which statistically isnt true, thats a health issue not a skin color issue.
Its not skin color that bothers me so much as stereotypes and women getting a fetish based on a false premise.
Or the classic 'ditching a white guy' to go bang a thug.
Even Candace Owens and similar black female commentators noted this.
White suburban women fly to the carribbean for some BBC action while they cheat on thier husband with thugs and black guys.
Or michigan women driving to chicago to get coked up and bang thugs because they are bored.
Or cancun. Pretty much anything in cancun.
Its a cliche.
And it pollutes the waters.
So its not so much skin color.
As it is bad taste.
There is a difference between a white woman dating, for example, WIll Smith or Denzel Washington
And a white woman LOWERING HER STANDARDS to fulfill a false fantasy based on arbitrary cultural stereotypes shoved down the pipe of mtv or tiktok or instagram.
Also..
Some white women may date black men with a "bad boy" image because they believe they can change or "clean him up." There’s often a hope that they can help turn his life around.
For example, I grew up in Gary, Indiana, and although I wasn’t involved in street life, I had friends who were. One of them, a guy I knew well, got into a lot of trouble over the years. We lost touch, but years later, his brother passed away from liver failure, and we reconnected at the funeral.
To our surprise, this friend showed up married to a white woman. She had completely transformed him. His kids looked and acted like suburban kids—well-behaved, nothing like the life we knew he came from. We joked with him about his street past, and he admitted that meeting her had changed everything. They met at work, fell in love, and she helped him leave the street life behind. Now, he’s a dedicated father with a job.
This story reflects why some women, particularly those outside of the street life, might be drawn to these men. They believe they can be part of that transformation, helping them leave their past behind. In many cases, they come from families that aren't involved in the same struggles, which further supports the change.
I see what you are saying.
When you say LOWERING HER STANDARDS.
The reason why the thug can get some white women to go out with him. It because of how confident he is about the world.
Thugs tend to don't care what other people say or think about them. That confidence is why he can get women to go out with him.
So in her view.
He is not a low guy in society. In her view he is a confident protector type.
When the white man comes to her and shame her for dating the thug type.
In reality.
That white man looks weak and controlling actually.
Because he is letting his own opinion and jealously determine what's best for her.
This is why I strongly believe going forward. It's the interest of both white and black men to start networking with each other.
Once you do.. you would understand certain things like this.
And also.
Your comment isn't racist at all.
It's CONTROLLING!
What you really want.
You want to CONTROL how white women think and behave. Now take your mindset and become a powerful government official.
Ah...
Now you have a government of people who want to CONTROL relationships.
Such as.
Whites can only date whites Blacks can only date blacks
This line of THINKING can only take you down 2 paths.
There is no LOVE or PEACE with this form of thinking.
OP sounds like he’s been rejected. Just to OP a message. The type of white girl that dates “thugs”, won’t date you and they won’t date non thug black men. You know what? You dodged a bullet.
I agree lol.
I am one of those non thug black men. Those girls don't come my way either.
Welcome my brother refugee. I had a white girl tell me how she’d sleep with Lil Wayne cause he looks like he’s good in bed. There’s a “TYPE” that they want. Op needs to look at the Fresh Prince of Bel air to see the dynamics between the thug and conservative black men. If he wants a girl that’s chasing Pookie and Ray Ray, that’s on him. Those girls never stop making bad decisions.
Well said.
I take it you are black to?
Affirmative. Just watching the world burn.
lol. I hear you.
IDK...A woman who breeds with a thug likely can’t be saved...
wholesome women attracted to thugs?
eh