With the loss of my 30-year spouse/darling/other soul I have found it so hard to even care about "being upgraded...and ascending." (Which used to be what I, and both of us, lived for, all our lives, even prior to meeting.) I literally feel like I died, holding and kissing those precious hands as the last breaths sighed out. Marriage is a sacrament, making two people one...and what am I, with my entire 2=1 self amputated?
So thank you. Literally the only thing I've had to hold on to is that I would rather be the one suffering like this, than to have had it be me going first.
That's a tough one...I know the emptiness. That's the hardest part of death for me. And the dreams with that person I projected into the future no longer a possibility.
Yes. I felt the change and 2:1 when I got married. It really is a sacrament.
May God comfort you and may you feel his love for you during these hard times.
And I extend a prayer and a hug to you in your loss.
It's the loss of dreams...but also the loss of someone who made me a better person, day after day, just by existing/interacting. The "boot camp" of marriage.
Seems to me the "youth culture" focus of the MSM/entertainment/etc. industry has completely ignored all these essential things. Marriage, life, death, working it out. Instead: perpetual consumerism.
I celebrated my 56th anniversary five days ago. I am still married to my husband, but he is on the other side waiting for me. Life never really ends; it just changes. He is free of all the illnesses and pains of this life and is with family and friends. I do not believe that those who have passed spend their time in anxiety to see us. Rather, their perspective is entirely changed by literally seeing God's will at work. Be happy for your loved ones who have gone before. God knows and loves each of us individually and knows when it is our time. He is our Savior and best friend.
Thank you for this.
With the loss of my 30-year spouse/darling/other soul I have found it so hard to even care about "being upgraded...and ascending." (Which used to be what I, and both of us, lived for, all our lives, even prior to meeting.) I literally feel like I died, holding and kissing those precious hands as the last breaths sighed out. Marriage is a sacrament, making two people one...and what am I, with my entire 2=1 self amputated?
So thank you. Literally the only thing I've had to hold on to is that I would rather be the one suffering like this, than to have had it be me going first.
You're welcome.
That's a tough one...I know the emptiness. That's the hardest part of death for me. And the dreams with that person I projected into the future no longer a possibility.
Yes. I felt the change and 2:1 when I got married. It really is a sacrament.
May God comfort you and may you feel his love for you during these hard times.
God bless you and thank you.
And I extend a prayer and a hug to you in your loss.
It's the loss of dreams...but also the loss of someone who made me a better person, day after day, just by existing/interacting. The "boot camp" of marriage.
Seems to me the "youth culture" focus of the MSM/entertainment/etc. industry has completely ignored all these essential things. Marriage, life, death, working it out. Instead: perpetual consumerism.
I celebrated my 56th anniversary five days ago. I am still married to my husband, but he is on the other side waiting for me. Life never really ends; it just changes. He is free of all the illnesses and pains of this life and is with family and friends. I do not believe that those who have passed spend their time in anxiety to see us. Rather, their perspective is entirely changed by literally seeing God's will at work. Be happy for your loved ones who have gone before. God knows and loves each of us individually and knows when it is our time. He is our Savior and best friend.