Yes please!! I lost my husb in 2016. Finally tried a couple dating sites but oh my goodness it was AWFUL! I cant believe how brazen people are. All about looks and sex and money. Nothing about real values and principles or finding a kind, decent and loyal partner to share your life with.
Just yesterday, I said good morning to a man at the gas pump next to me and said how nice it was to see his FACE instead of a mask. He mentioned being a Trump supporter so we chatted while we waited. But then he asks if I am single and says “So would you like to get together and fool around sometime? No strings. Just get to know each other?”
I have the latest x22 on my browser and a few rounds to go downrange, need to zero in my latest SDW. nice open space to shoot bout 1/4 mile from highway safe from stray rounds and private property
I prefer hand picked “weeds” to store bought flowers
I’d rather take the dogs for a hike than go to a club (ick)
I rarely eat out bc I try to avoid GMOs and artificial ingredients so its just easier to cook/grill at home
The few things I enjoy that require going “out” are live music and dancing. Is it too much to ask for a man who also likes to two step, who is enjoying the show (because he trusts the plan 100%), and is a biological male WHO IDENTIFIES AS A BIOLOGICAL MAN?
Girl I'm with ya there. Even on Christian dating sites it's all nothing but how you look and how quickly you can get to the sex part, it's quite disheartening. I don't want a f*ck buddy I want a man to raise a family with! Is this so hard to ask for?
I did it, took like 2 years to find the right person. I got engaged to someone after a year but it was not great so I broke it off and tried again. They just wanted to get married and the first bump in the road couldn’t be talked through.
Be yourself and don’t be afraid to straight up ask sex questions or finances. That stuff can ruin the relationship later or just make it difficult. Marriage is difficult even when all the stars align and there are no kids so don’t settle for less. Look for a person with the right heart and give it all to God and ask for advice from friends that will be honest. I asked for advice from people that wouldn’t be brutally honest and it almost hurt me.
I guess this went from a reply to just general advice. In regards to your comment about sex before getting to know someone (aka marriage), from my personal experience sex is more about emotions than the physical act. This is why Jesus talked about looking at women lustfully as still committing adultery. It’s so much more than just an act, many different things are combined into sex in marriage. It’s such a beautiful thing.
lol, may I ask which denomination? I'm afraid to say mine and then get shot down because our "leader" is very much an open commie at this point, sad to say. But I don't follow his words, I follow God's.
I was raised Lutheran and am a member of a lutheran church but honestly i cant say that denomination works for me. I definitely believe Christ is my savior and read the Bible to see what God says for myself.
Our church still has not returned to normal and altho i like the Pastor i see no reason why the COVID charade should still be a factor. Im not going back until i can not wear a mask and can SING the hymns rather than sit there bc singing spreads virus.
Im denominationally curious lol it doesnt matter to me unless the pastor offers adrenochrome instead of wine or grapr juice at communion, then well have a problem lol
At least he was upfront about what he wanted, as opposed to pretending he wanted one thing while angling for another, and I'd give him points for that had I been the one interacting with me. I'd probably have even told him so.
Actually, I did! I gave him points for being straight about it. Even told him so. I just said that for me to really enjoy the physical aspect (which I very much did with my husband), the cerebral and emotional connection has to come first. Thats all.
Then he tried to debate the point of how sex is a great way to get to know each other, and thats when I wished him a lovely day and was on my way.
His immediate dismissal of your very cogent and oh-so important point about the cerebral/emotional connection (which applies equally to me and to many women) demonstrates that he's likely dismissive of many things that are important to anyone he's in a relationship with.
LOL! It's always so cringe to see guys take that approach. Especially when they start off with strong opening game only to jump straight over the quintessential rapport and comfort building middle game, and rush straight into creepy, desperation-laden "end game".
I used to be an avid follower of the Pick-up community from 16 til around 20--reading stacks of e-books on "game theory", female psychology, body language and Neurolinguistic programming, I'd extracting the key philosophies and inscribe them into a journal, create "infield exercises" to apply in person which over time conditioned myself to be able to speak confidently, become immune to rejection, and to put everything I read about into practice.
It's been about 6 years since I've looked into my old journals, but that whole experience undoubtedly became ingrained in my personality since then.
Once we take our country back, ive been thinking of potentially getting back into it and maybe setting up some workshops to help beta males and socially awkward men be able to understand social dynamics and how to manifest their inner alpha.
Yes please!! I lost my husb in 2016. Finally tried a couple dating sites but oh my goodness it was AWFUL! I cant believe how brazen people are. All about looks and sex and money. Nothing about real values and principles or finding a kind, decent and loyal partner to share your life with.
Just yesterday, I said good morning to a man at the gas pump next to me and said how nice it was to see his FACE instead of a mask. He mentioned being a Trump supporter so we chatted while we waited. But then he asks if I am single and says “So would you like to get together and fool around sometime? No strings. Just get to know each other?”
Seriously?
Thanks but NO.
Ha! That would have been a “Hell yes!”
I have the latest x22 on my browser and a few rounds to go downrange, need to zero in my latest SDW. nice open space to shoot bout 1/4 mile from highway safe from stray rounds and private property
lol, like I said in another post, not one here to mingle, but its always fun to realise there are peds of oposit gender still looking also.
with ammo prices so high, it would be cheaper to hit up a 5 star famous people only restaurant?
I’m actually a pretty cheap date:
The few things I enjoy that require going “out” are live music and dancing. Is it too much to ask for a man who also likes to two step, who is enjoying the show (because he trusts the plan 100%), and is a biological male WHO IDENTIFIES AS A BIOLOGICAL MAN?
We shall see.
Dont know 2 step but nice to meet you..
Two-step is fun. I actually learned how at the original Gilley’s in Pasadena TEXAS. Good times.
fair enough!!!
I reload for this exact reason. MAGA ladies can hmu for long term range dates.
I wish I would have got into reloading before all this covid shit. I do have a 12ga press that was a hand me down from a step grandpa.
Girl I'm with ya there. Even on Christian dating sites it's all nothing but how you look and how quickly you can get to the sex part, it's quite disheartening. I don't want a f*ck buddy I want a man to raise a family with! Is this so hard to ask for?
I did it, took like 2 years to find the right person. I got engaged to someone after a year but it was not great so I broke it off and tried again. They just wanted to get married and the first bump in the road couldn’t be talked through.
Be yourself and don’t be afraid to straight up ask sex questions or finances. That stuff can ruin the relationship later or just make it difficult. Marriage is difficult even when all the stars align and there are no kids so don’t settle for less. Look for a person with the right heart and give it all to God and ask for advice from friends that will be honest. I asked for advice from people that wouldn’t be brutally honest and it almost hurt me.
I guess this went from a reply to just general advice. In regards to your comment about sex before getting to know someone (aka marriage), from my personal experience sex is more about emotions than the physical act. This is why Jesus talked about looking at women lustfully as still committing adultery. It’s so much more than just an act, many different things are combined into sex in marriage. It’s such a beautiful thing.
Hello ma'am, very family oriented Christian here who just happens to be single lol
lol, may I ask which denomination? I'm afraid to say mine and then get shot down because our "leader" is very much an open commie at this point, sad to say. But I don't follow his words, I follow God's.
I was raised Lutheran and am a member of a lutheran church but honestly i cant say that denomination works for me. I definitely believe Christ is my savior and read the Bible to see what God says for myself.
Our church still has not returned to normal and altho i like the Pastor i see no reason why the COVID charade should still be a factor. Im not going back until i can not wear a mask and can SING the hymns rather than sit there bc singing spreads virus.
Im denominationally curious lol it doesnt matter to me unless the pastor offers adrenochrome instead of wine or grapr juice at communion, then well have a problem lol
wow that sounds disgusting. wtf is wrong with people? do you live in a blue state?
Not even close. I'm in TEXAS!
yeah that's scary. think I would have to move if I lived around people like that, pretty sure most of them are demonic:( yuck.
Sorry for your Loss ??
Thank you!!
I joined match dot con 2 days ago. Have already gotten several such generous offers. Same response as yours.
Wow.
Yeah, I got some of those too. Who knew polyamory was so big in TX??
???
And this is after I clearly stated in my profile that I was looking for someone to share a “happily ever after” and grow old with.
When people think it is okay to ask your views on anal sex during your first phone convo, something is VERY sick and twisted in our culture.
Cant wait for the “silent majority” to rise up loud and proud and get back to decency, kindness, love and compassion.
It CAN happen. Pray on it(?)
At least he was upfront about what he wanted, as opposed to pretending he wanted one thing while angling for another, and I'd give him points for that had I been the one interacting with me. I'd probably have even told him so.
Actually, I did! I gave him points for being straight about it. Even told him so. I just said that for me to really enjoy the physical aspect (which I very much did with my husband), the cerebral and emotional connection has to come first. Thats all.
Then he tried to debate the point of how sex is a great way to get to know each other, and thats when I wished him a lovely day and was on my way.
Good for you giving him points!
His immediate dismissal of your very cogent and oh-so important point about the cerebral/emotional connection (which applies equally to me and to many women) demonstrates that he's likely dismissive of many things that are important to anyone he's in a relationship with.
Yeah, I'm not easily offended and prefer hard truth to pretty BS any day.
And the toxic air freshener hanging from his mirror was enough of a red flag for me, never mind the dismissive attitude!
LOL! It's always so cringe to see guys take that approach. Especially when they start off with strong opening game only to jump straight over the quintessential rapport and comfort building middle game, and rush straight into creepy, desperation-laden "end game".
I used to be an avid follower of the Pick-up community from 16 til around 20--reading stacks of e-books on "game theory", female psychology, body language and Neurolinguistic programming, I'd extracting the key philosophies and inscribe them into a journal, create "infield exercises" to apply in person which over time conditioned myself to be able to speak confidently, become immune to rejection, and to put everything I read about into practice.
It's been about 6 years since I've looked into my old journals, but that whole experience undoubtedly became ingrained in my personality since then.
Once we take our country back, ive been thinking of potentially getting back into it and maybe setting up some workshops to help beta males and socially awkward men be able to understand social dynamics and how to manifest their inner alpha.
Why can't I find the comment of mine you replied to?
..still haven't figured out the entirety of the layout of these boards. I feel like a noob
Eww. Seriously? Eww.