This is just a friendly recommendation for those who frequent this incredible, life-changing forum: Don’t let the negativity and anger bleed into your relationships. Yes, shit is crazy and it seems like the world has turned into upside down land. Our kids can feel it, our spouses can feel it, hell even our pets can feel it. We must remember to maintain our composure and be leaders in our house. Don’t allow your emotions to spill into your personal relationships - and even worse, ruin those relationships.
I will get personal and use myself as an example. My wife is 8+ months pregnant and works 10+ hours a day. By the time she gets off work, she’s absolutely exhausted mentally and physically. Naturally, when she gets home from work, I want to vent to her about how absolutely ass backwards this society is, but she really wants nothing to do with it. We end up arguing because I do this shit all the time, and she just doesn’t want to hear it. She understands that everything is not what it seems and that society is crumbling, but she just doesn’t have the energy to worry about it. “What can I do about it?”
To be fair to her, she doesn’t have to worry about it. Not every person has the capacity to worry about these things all day, like many of us. Nor should they be subjected to it, because it’s very daunting.
I use this forum to vent, and discuss various thoughts and ideas (mostly elementary) related to the great awakening. It took me a few months and a few fights to realize that this ain’t for everyone. We should ensure to maintain our relationships at home and uplift our family, not bring them down with doom. Be the example that the world needs to see and that your family needs.
Hell, maybe this is just me - but I’m sure there are others out there who struggled like me.
Love you all!
WWG1WGA
I hear that! My wife has been the only one to call me crazy - just only because I was a bit obsessive and wasn’t doing a good job at hiding it. I have actually redpilled my dad and sister and they cancelled their jabs and are now morally opposed. My goal is to enlighten people in a calm manner. In the beginning, I was low key yelling at people because I was so angry at their ignorance. I learned that I was only discrediting myself and pushing them away.
My priest talks about the Pope leading the church in the wrong direction, he talks about Epstein and Bill Gates (he’s awesome ?) but he reminds us to keep our focus on Jesus, pray! And turn off the tv/media. He says this is in Gods hands/his timing not ours, he is in control. He also says to pray for courage to do Gods will because we are all going to be called to do different things in the dark days/years ahead.
Your pastor is a true Man of God! That is so awesome.
Thx for the reminder fren. Many of my friends and family don't want to hear it. There are only a few of us who use this forum (Luckily my wife is like me & reads GAW amongst other non MSM things).
You are speaking truth though! We all must lead by example, with grace & patience for those still not on board.
Trust in God. He will not subject you to more than you can bear. Remember the poem about the footprints in the sand...When you feel like you are abandoned and alone, those are the times God is carrying you.
I prayed to God and asked him to help me be a better person. The next 12 years were very trying. I said, hay im not sure I can be that good. My Mom said be very specific when you pray. If you want a cat and are supposed to have a cat. The Good Lord willing you will get a cat. Be specific in what kind of cat detailed to the 9th.
We are here for you! We’re all in this together.
Live your best life. In the end thats all anyone can ask of another. Teach your boys the importance of freedom of choice and the freedom to enjoy the fruits of their labor. Remind them of those that have sacrificed everything to give them that Freedom. Love your husband and children.
And always remember that God will prevail and that you have friends here that pray for your health, safety and happiness.
I agree with you and disagree with how much she has to work. Billable hours are a bitch...
For my sanity - I stay away from negativity and do NOT watch any MSM. Beyond that, I keep my family close, and keep God at the top of the list!!! God will act when God thinks it's time to act. Until then - ain't nothing I can do but sit and watch the show and keep everyone in prayers! God Bless!
Amen!
Thank you for the reminder. I do that too.We can vent at each other here so Our relationships don't have to suffer from the obsessions. I know for me it is common to get obsessed with a topic and go on about it. I have learned it's the way my adhd works. I appreciate the post. Sometimes balancing everything is hard and I work hard to focus on the facts not feelings. I guess that's why my husband let me vent yesterday and then calmly presented the facts of appeal process...
Agreed! That’s awesome your husband sounds so supportive!
Yep, was a lot easier when I put together all of the connections and learned to not react emotionally to news stories. Instead I try to find the connections and have full confidence we are close to a new level of freedom and prosperity for all!
I agree - but I do find that if we believe we are morally correct, we should be the example of how to act AND react. The way I react is something I have to work on every single day and it doesn’t come easy. I have a short fuse, but that’s never helped me in life.
Great post, OP!
Thank God, our children are grown and fully support POTUS, the Q team, and patriots. When our grandchildren are visiting, we wait until they go to bed before discussing the latest info.
Thank you for this relatable post. My husband and I have had two giant fights in our married life (not quite 3 years married yet). One over me trying to share a “plandemic” video, and one over me talking about how upset I was about Hanks being evil. He is so terrified of covid and any attempts to redpill him have had negative consequences on our relationship. I desperately want him to be able to question the MSM narrative, but you’re right, it’s not worth me constantly pushing him away by trying to vent about things. I feel like I should be doing more to redpill him as I feel desperate, but your post is very timely and a good reminder that constant bombardment will not have a positive effect. Thanks.
He is planning to get the vaccine, but isn’t going to rush into it. I am hopeful and pray that enough negative things will leak into the MSM (as it seems like the odd things are nowadays), so that he will start to question things. The other helpful thing has been my pastor constantly reminding us: the world is spinning out of control, but remember to look to the cross; the cross alone stands still. Prayer and sneakily reading GA and avoiding other social media have helped me feel less inclined to anger and people and their insanity right now. Thank goodness for everyone on here. I finally bit the bullet and made an account.
I agree, I have a similar situation with my husband. My sister and I have arguments regularly with our mother though we try so hard no to. She is totally indoctrinated by the schools (teacher) and the propaganda of the MSM. She believes all fact checkers over us. I was laughing and telling her about Bill Gates and how he is trying to launch particles to block the sun. I said he is like the epitome of a Bond villain. Of course I must have said “he is” doing it but I was saying he is prepping to do it. So she fact checks me and says it in the way of I’m crazy because he isn’t doing it, he is backing a venture who is doing it! So I’m crazy. My uncle who lives with her called my sister today to ask questions and he says she rages around the house about how crazy we are. Yet every day more and more of what we say is validated. She just changed what she thinks “Ociana had always been at war with Eastasia”. I feel like the only sane person in an asylum yet I’m the one being called crazy. It’s enough to drive someone crazy.
Oh yes, we are fully prepared here. She laughs while I stockpile things, “just in case.” My family is the main reason I pay attention to all of this. I will go to Earth’s end to protect and provide for them.
I know deep down she appreciates everything I do. We have made a deal that I won’t talk politics with her - which has really been beneficial for me too.
As for the people who judge me, that’s ok. I’m not perfect and I’ll be the first to admit it. Emotions can control us if we let them, and I have. I also learn from my mistakes and admit when I make them. Instead of judging me, focus on what you can do better in your life. I promise you that you are not perfect.
I was with you 100% in the first paragraph, but you completely lost me in the second. Seriously, dude, what the heck are you doing? Leave your wife alone. She's about to give birth to a human being. She's already working 10.5 hours a day, which would be exhausting even if she weren't pregnant. It seems you're the one who hasn't got a clue. You say you keep bugging her. Get a freaking clue and leave her alone to prepare for the most momentous experience she has yet to have in her entire life, and that includes marrying you. Honestly, you just revealed yourself to be a huge pussy / douche and you'll be lucky if she's still with you in a year if you don't make immediate changes. YOU are the one who should be supporting her and your family, not wearing her down and exhausting her more with your neediness.
You’re insane. That’s all =)
You're mentally torturing your wife and I'd put money on her giving serious consideration to leaving you. I hope it doesn't come to that, but it may if you carry on with your own, self described program of abuse. Poor woman. Poor baby.
You couldn’t be further from the truth, but please keep going. This is getting good!
Lol. I'm only going by what you have said yourself.