Insane Paranoia from this Covidian Cult Member
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Have you noticed that it’s mainly 30 something white (single?) females that are the most paranoid? The Covid Karens who worship government and the likes of Fauci and would replace real men with government as their ‘husbands’?
Their standards are too high.
Even when they achieve their goals, which are usually unnecessarily extravagant for the purpose at hand, they still find ways to poke holes in what they've got for an excuse to throw it away and start over.
It isn't really perfectionism, because they actually don't want something that's perfect. They want something that's imperfect which they alone are able to operate, and therefore THEY are special and "perfect" in its presence.
They want to do all of this and still be part of a group. So, when you get a bunch of them together, they will take a system that is completely serviceable as is, fluff it up with unnecessary additions with glaring flaws they each individually can attend to so they artificially justify why they are invaluable to the system's operation.
Their additions never had to be there to begin with, the system is clunky and awkward due to their inclusions, and now only they can operate the system such that if one slips all hell breaks loose.
Eventually, they begin hate each-other for how difficult they make one another's job, and cliques form filled with gossip and back-stabbing. Soon after, most of their time is taken up by the gossip and back-stabbing such that they can no longer sustain the system to which they are a part of. It implodes, someone leaves, everyone freaks out, and the system crashes and burns.
They don't learn any lessons from this disaster and move on to the next thing to destroy.
Tale as old as time...
What real world examples are you drawing from?
Literally every interaction with women in my life has led me to this conclusion.
Girl teaparties, highschool girls, my mother and her sisters, workplace cliques; it's just what they do.
Women are a rib and want to find the body they came from to "complete" it.
There's nothing wrong with that drive, it's what makes women women.
What's wrong is when you take an already complete body and carve a rib out so you can replace it. Most who fit the above description of "30 something white (single?) females" do just this and make everyone's life a living hell because of it.
They'll invent chores to do; intentionally make things harder so they can put their unique strengths to use and feel useful as a result. They'll create a routine that has to be followed to the letter and if you break that routine by finding a shortcut they get upset not because you "outsmarted" them or "mansplained" a better system, but because you didn't value the system they put in place that provided an opportunity for them to exhibit their skills and talents, obsolete as they may be.
Not valuing their system enough to follow it despite having found a better system, in their minds, means you don't value their strengths.
For example: A woman will create an itinerary for a vacation trip of all the attractions she assumes the family would want to see. The rest of the family only follows the itinerary because they don't want to upset the woman.
If not for the itinerary, the family would just go to the attractions they want to the most first, probably by a vote. The itinerary, however, is organized on estimated times for the ride down to the time spent in line depending on what time of the day it is. If the itinerary was followed to the letter, all rides would have been ridden, so there would be no need for a vote system and everyone will get to ride on the ride they wanted to.
It's a noble plan, and is ideal on paper, sure, but one that sucks the fun out of the vacation. Because everything is dry and organized, the memories are flat. Some family members may change their mind on what ride they want to go on, but since it is on the itinerary, even though they don't care to ride it anymore, they must to appease the almighty itinerary. In a way, the woman created the itinerary as an idol that must be worshiped and followed, almost like a ritual. Breaking the ritual means no one is allowed to have fun anymore.
In doing so, the woman grafts her own ideal on an existing system (let's have a fun time) and is allowed to show off her strengths in organizing and planning. Unfortunately, it is at the detriment to all involved who just want to have fun and not feel like their care-free vacations is as strict as a gulag assembly line.
I'm sure you've seen this trope written in several family sitcoms. It's a trope because it does happen way too often...
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Men aren't free from this foolishness either, but it manifests itself differently.
Men have their own version of this, mind you. I'm not saying it is all on the woman. Men, instead of making a system clunkier to demonstrate their strengths will actually seek out challenges well beyond their competency in order to show off their strengths.
While women take a system which is already there and alter it to suit their ego, men will seek to create systems that they barely have the ability to master, also to suit their ego.
As a shorter example: A man seeks to assemble a desk. Instead of following the manual, they will foolishly insist on doing it with no instruction. Additionally, they will also attempt to construct the desk while using the least amount of hardware (screws, pins, etc.) included in the kit, just to demonstrate their ingenuity.
They will spend far too much time trying to figure out how something is attached than actually attaching it. Men overthink things.
I know this all too well, because I'm guilty of it. I constantly fight the urge to create tools custom tailored for a craft project using bottles, pens, and other garbage instead of just going out and buying one already made for the task.
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This is probably lengthier than you expected, but it's just another time when my man brain decided to overthink things...
Cheers!
This is amazing! Describes my wife uncomfortably accurately lol. She knows she’s got “control issues” (and vacations are fertile ground) and when they’re not triggered we laugh about it. But the itinerary thing...yeah. I always wondered why such hyper planning of things was necessary (3:30-4:30pm: shopping. 4:30-5:30pm: spontaneous trip to the beach!) and I feel like you nailed it. I think I’ve gotten her to loosen her grip over the years. She recently went on a girl’s trip with a couple friends and the alpha of that group had every last minute of a five day trip mapped out to a T. That kind of hyper planning of everything for everyone freaks me out, like why would you ever feel the need to do that? Why not just let go and enjoy yourself and see what happens? This seems like it hits the nail on the head!
On the flip, I’m TOO “whatever” about things. I hate planning. Drives her nuts lol. God I love that woman.