On average a gay man has 80 sexual partners a year and an average of 1,000 over a lifetime?!
That is stunning. I cannot imagine, on a practical or logistical level, the amount of energy and personal resources it would take to find hook ups 80 times a year, let alone to keep that pace up for over 12 years.
That strongly supports the theory of unvetted, unverified, random sexual partners being the norm for gay men. What a hollow, empty existence that must be for those who follow this path. I feel sorry for them, honestly.
I'd be very interested to see if lesbian women's numbers track anything like this.
Consider that men with no sexual mores do not need a reason to have sex, just a place.
Consider that gay bars and bath houses exist.
For these people a weekend might consist of meeting a new friend or five at the bar on Friday night, hooking up that evening with several of them, then spending the weekend with them. They may repeat this with one group of friends or another every weekend for a year, taking time off only to hold down a job and recover from the festivities.
People who live their lives in service to their fetishes are like those who live their lives in service to a drug addiction. The addict constantly seeks a better orgasm or a better high, or at least next orgasm or high. Constant depravity and numerous sexual partners are just part of the lifestyle.
I think I used the term 'hollow' somewhere upstream. Your post really illustrates the point.
Addiction is an excellent comparison. There has to be some sort of extra-level driver(s) to create this behavior. And with a whole profitable industry built around it to make money off the depravity, too.
I believe the norm for lesbian women, last time I looked; was they end up in long term relationships, with sex only happening in the beginning, and becoming celibate later on.
Many then later admit, that their sexual fantasies revolve around men forcibly impregnating them.
Really?! That's... That's just sad and terrible on a-whole-nother level.
Do you have any good sources I could read to learn more? I'm honestly and truly flabbergasted by this info (along with the original thread re gay men).
Grinder is even more popular than Tinder for a reason. Also, the intestinal worm thing really is true. It also messes with the person's mind to WANT to continue to have anal sex (which is how the worms multiply and transmit) to an insane degree. It literally makes the person CRAVE anal sex CONSTANTLY to the point where it's the only thing they do, think about, or care about.
I honestly believe this to be a huge factor as we already have proof of parasites changing their hosts' behavior to ensure future transmission (eg infected mice and their suicidal behavior around cats).
And that actually explains quite a bit about the overriding urge to continually hook up in huge numbers with no emotional, spiritual, or emotional connection with anonymous partners.
On average a gay man has 80 sexual partners a year and an average of 1,000 over a lifetime?!
That is stunning. I cannot imagine, on a practical or logistical level, the amount of energy and personal resources it would take to find hook ups 80 times a year, let alone to keep that pace up for over 12 years.
That strongly supports the theory of unvetted, unverified, random sexual partners being the norm for gay men. What a hollow, empty existence that must be for those who follow this path. I feel sorry for them, honestly.
I'd be very interested to see if lesbian women's numbers track anything like this.
Consider that homosexuality is a fetish.
Consider that men with no sexual mores do not need a reason to have sex, just a place.
Consider that gay bars and bath houses exist.
For these people a weekend might consist of meeting a new friend or five at the bar on Friday night, hooking up that evening with several of them, then spending the weekend with them. They may repeat this with one group of friends or another every weekend for a year, taking time off only to hold down a job and recover from the festivities.
People who live their lives in service to their fetishes are like those who live their lives in service to a drug addiction. The addict constantly seeks a better orgasm or a better high, or at least next orgasm or high. Constant depravity and numerous sexual partners are just part of the lifestyle.
I think I used the term 'hollow' somewhere upstream. Your post really illustrates the point.
Addiction is an excellent comparison. There has to be some sort of extra-level driver(s) to create this behavior. And with a whole profitable industry built around it to make money off the depravity, too.
I believe the norm for lesbian women, last time I looked; was they end up in long term relationships, with sex only happening in the beginning, and becoming celibate later on.
Many then later admit, that their sexual fantasies revolve around men forcibly impregnating them.
An empty existence, just in a different way.
Really?! That's... That's just sad and terrible on a-whole-nother level.
Do you have any good sources I could read to learn more? I'm honestly and truly flabbergasted by this info (along with the original thread re gay men).
What a truly sad existence.
Grinder is even more popular than Tinder for a reason. Also, the intestinal worm thing really is true. It also messes with the person's mind to WANT to continue to have anal sex (which is how the worms multiply and transmit) to an insane degree. It literally makes the person CRAVE anal sex CONSTANTLY to the point where it's the only thing they do, think about, or care about.
Excellent point.
I honestly believe this to be a huge factor as we already have proof of parasites changing their hosts' behavior to ensure future transmission (eg infected mice and their suicidal behavior around cats).
And that actually explains quite a bit about the overriding urge to continually hook up in huge numbers with no emotional, spiritual, or emotional connection with anonymous partners.
8 in lifetime. Not 80 lol
The sourced graphic says 80 partners per year on average and a lifetime average of 1,000 partners. Do you have sources that refute that?
Whoops I read that wrong.
No problem. Happens to the best of us.