I wonder why he felt the need to show you a pic of when he was on Hannity... perhaps a bit of bragging that he felt that was important at this stage of your acquaintance...I would proceed with caution (you should anyway)...but he could be a great guy...have fun if you go...
Yes...but instincts fall apart with narcissists...meeting new people is very hard...so you can never regret caution...if nothing else you may have a lovely dinner or meet a new friend and those are worthwhile endeavors...also pray that God shows you what He wants you to know about this person...He is never wrong...
To me, there is a scale of what it means to be a "public figure". Being a guest on a show once is low on that scale, whereas hosting that show is at the top of that scale.
If he has written a book and is attempting to gain publicity, then he is possibly rising on that scale.
So, if you're asking your question because you don't want to be on a path with a man who is ascending the public figure scale, then you need to ask him about his plans and hopes and dreams.
But... good for you that a gentleman is interested in you! That, in and of itself is very validating.
I'm a gentleman, by the way. And I felt like you were asking this question directly of me... I don't know why... so I answered. Hope it's helpful.
Why is it important that he is a public figure? For you and for him to show it to you?
If you like him, say yes for the dinner in a public restaurant and find out who he really is.
Whether he has the same values, goals and interests in life and for life. Whether you feel attracted to him and really enjoy the time with him.
Listen to him and you will know everything. Choose wisely - always.
He seems nice so far this one time I’ve spoken with him. He’s doing the pursuing, not me.
Good, let him do his thing, listen and watch. You have time and many possiblities.
Grandmas always said "SHUT YOUR MOUTH AND CLOSE YOUR LEGS" - for a good reason.
I unlearned a lot of my indoctrinated views with this weirdo woman, Dr. Pat Allen, perhaps you want to listen to her before the date.
Former traditions on dating where absolutely right and good guidance: https://youtu.be/8fFQypPh0E8?t=740
I wonder why he felt the need to show you a pic of when he was on Hannity... perhaps a bit of bragging that he felt that was important at this stage of your acquaintance...I would proceed with caution (you should anyway)...but he could be a great guy...have fun if you go...
I wanted someone to do a deep dive. Lol. I will probably say yes to the public place dinner and trust my instincts.
Yes...but instincts fall apart with narcissists...meeting new people is very hard...so you can never regret caution...if nothing else you may have a lovely dinner or meet a new friend and those are worthwhile endeavors...also pray that God shows you what He wants you to know about this person...He is never wrong...
^This!
To me, there is a scale of what it means to be a "public figure". Being a guest on a show once is low on that scale, whereas hosting that show is at the top of that scale.
If he has written a book and is attempting to gain publicity, then he is possibly rising on that scale.
So, if you're asking your question because you don't want to be on a path with a man who is ascending the public figure scale, then you need to ask him about his plans and hopes and dreams.
But... good for you that a gentleman is interested in you! That, in and of itself is very validating.
I'm a gentleman, by the way. And I felt like you were asking this question directly of me... I don't know why... so I answered. Hope it's helpful.
Thank you for the reply. It’s helpful.
You should look up their name online to find out.