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So Lordie, why don't people want to work an easy gig for 20 and hour after taxes? I cannot do the moving around and assisting physically the little guy (116 lbs) my son and I care for in our home. I want to give my kid a break on the weekends, so I have been advertising for someone to help hang with the man we care for, watch TV with him, help with walking him, (not alone, I would be there too) maybe go to activities on the weekend, read to him, etc. They would not be preparing meals or be doing housework, I can train them to feed him. There are days he dozes a lot and they just need to be someone with a pulse for 8-10 hours on the days they are here. This is the fourth round of ads I have placed. My son gets paid for personal care and taking him out in the community and appointments from Monday-Friday, under the title "Community Support Person". I get no responses, or people who never show up on time and have a million reasons why they can't come sometimes. All my son wants is a break, and people are not answering an ad which would give them a couple of hundred bucks for an easy job in two days. WTF?
I have a caregiver staff for my mother in law - four of them. Try a nursing student or a CNA looking for some under the table dollars. Ask your healthcare friends. Maybe a high schooler. Good luck!
I have no idea what that means. Maybe that's why you get no takers.
And what is "the little guy (116 lbs)" that you and your son care for? Is it a dog?
You're an ass.
"Gig" is a common name for a job, a part time job. The little guy is the man who lives in our home, I am asking for a person to come and help me care for him, he is disabled and has to have someone with him eyes and ears on while he is up and out of bed, and ears on at night. The person just has to assist me in helping him walk, as I am 73 and cannot have him leaning on me for assistance, but I can do it with another person. Basically they just have to hang out with him, while I do the housework and meal preps and other chores. There is no heavy lifting involved, it is an easy job, the person would be in my home, they can read, watch tv with him, help me get him in the car and take him out and about with his wheelchair. He can stand and walk with assist.It is so my son has some time off, he works with him all week long. No training neccesary as I will be there to train and supervise.
I'd help you out finding someone if you were closer. I hope you find someone, it's tough watching people struggle, I do what I can for my dad and neighbors but I'm in my forties and falling apart too.... ain't the years it's the mileage.
Praying for God to send the perfect person to help you both! Blessings to your family! 🙏
Oh thank you so much, and blessings to yours also