Be careful because she means it when she says she will not move. I have asian relatives with huge families in Calif and they won't either. I thank God I got out when I did. I dont like the societal and economic issues of Calif. Horrible crime family running it. BUT.... I love the geography of Calif and I miss it. If they ever get their deadly politics replaced and their their shit together I would go back. If you have the ocean in you blood it never really goes away.
If you can collectively afford the taxes and keep her happy by being near her family, then consider it! I would of course make sure you've met in person first and hung out for about a week in close quarters, see if any red flags pop up. The honeymoon period after meeting someone can be quite intense.
Relative with taxes and such Central Valley and the State of Jefferson (within California - research it) are great places to live. CV you are 3 hours to everything cool in Cali. DM me if you want more info
I think going to someone because they want to be with family is reasonable. But as a woman… Be sure to vet her friends for not being toxic before getting married, I’ve heard of stories of jealous woke “friends” working hard to gaslight their friend into ruining relationships.
Besides all the personal stuff. CA is extremely valuable farm land, has good weather, and a beautiful coast. It really is pretty poor strategy for us to always tell people to run and let bad actors have it all. If you have the means to live there at a good quality of life, with family who lives you. That’s good stuff.
Love is the only thing that is real. Follow your heart. Cali is not a prison that you can't leave if it doesn't work out (yet).
Edit. Seriously consider someone you trust to keep your guns while you are there. If you don't have any, then I am not confident in your judgment. Unless, of course, you aren't allowed them by some unjust law.
" We live in a one-party state here in California. It’s an odd way to live, because you have to hope they won’t pass laws you find utterly intolerable. There is no recourse if they do. Pretty much like living in earthquake territory. You’re helpless, so you live by hope alone."
Has she always been a woman?
Kek
cali is red
Be careful because she means it when she says she will not move. I have asian relatives with huge families in Calif and they won't either. I thank God I got out when I did. I dont like the societal and economic issues of Calif. Horrible crime family running it. BUT.... I love the geography of Calif and I miss it. If they ever get their deadly politics replaced and their their shit together I would go back. If you have the ocean in you blood it never really goes away.
Def have ocean in my blood.
If you can collectively afford the taxes and keep her happy by being near her family, then consider it! I would of course make sure you've met in person first and hung out for about a week in close quarters, see if any red flags pop up. The honeymoon period after meeting someone can be quite intense.
Yep going to meet her first of course.
Buy a house that's half in Cali and half in NV.
Where in Cali? L.A. is shot. SF is shot. Sac town is shot.
It’s all relative Pede…come on out the weather’s fine!
What ya mean my fren?
Relative with taxes and such Central Valley and the State of Jefferson (within California - research it) are great places to live. CV you are 3 hours to everything cool in Cali. DM me if you want more info
I’m in the same type of boat…. Good to hear lol east coast my whole life NY area
I think going to someone because they want to be with family is reasonable. But as a woman… Be sure to vet her friends for not being toxic before getting married, I’ve heard of stories of jealous woke “friends” working hard to gaslight their friend into ruining relationships.
Besides all the personal stuff. CA is extremely valuable farm land, has good weather, and a beautiful coast. It really is pretty poor strategy for us to always tell people to run and let bad actors have it all. If you have the means to live there at a good quality of life, with family who lives you. That’s good stuff.
Go to hell
Everyone should visit :)
Lol
Love is the only thing that is real. Follow your heart. Cali is not a prison that you can't leave if it doesn't work out (yet).
Edit. Seriously consider someone you trust to keep your guns while you are there. If you don't have any, then I am not confident in your judgment. Unless, of course, you aren't allowed them by some unjust law.
James Woods has a word for you:
" We live in a one-party state here in California. It’s an odd way to live, because you have to hope they won’t pass laws you find utterly intolerable. There is no recourse if they do. Pretty much like living in earthquake territory. You’re helpless, so you live by hope alone."
https://twitter.com/RealJamesWoods/status/1694900586838192275
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