Welcome to General Chat - GAW Community Area
This General Chat area started off as a place for people to talk about things that are off topic, however it has quickly evolved into a community and has become an integral part of the GAW experience for many of us.
Based on its evolving needs and plenty of user feedback, we are trying to bring some order and institute some rules. Please make sure you read these rules and participate in the spirit of this community.
Rules for General Chat
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In short, imagine this thread to be a local community hall where we all gather and chat daily. Please be respectful to others in the same way
Triad family here, and yes. Our town had its first armed robbery in, maybe ever, last spring. Nextdoor is showing lots of sus people on their ring cams in the neighboring communities. We need to get to know our own streets and neighbors well now, it could be critical later
Excellent point getting to know the neighbors. I live on a busy hwy in the country in between curves. My family on one side and another family on the other side. My grandparents were friends with their grandparents and my mom was friends with the kids. We don't cross the road to talk but if we need to speak or need something it's an option. I'd be comfortable with them if it came down "apocalypse" type environment. There's been people breaking in cars in my county and others next door. After it happened to us my husband flagged down (to tell him as FYI) the city cop across that lives across the road. They had never met. Thankfully I live in the community I grew up in and know many people.
A lot of people don't value that because they've been duped by Hollywood, et al to believe you MUST go to a city to be successful (and happy). You have an awesome situation, God keep your family whole and united!
Thanks for prayers of blessing same to you. Since I was a kid I traveled a lot with my grandparents and mom up and down 95 many trips to Orlando when Walt Disney World was cool, up north, mountains every fall & one trip to Montreal Toronto and Niagara Falls. Went to NYC & Philly when I was about 19. It's true, there's no place like. I loved the big city but would never want to live there. Really hoped I'd get back to NYC before I got too old to travel. I just can't see it unless there's a major change. Even Nashville & Memphis TN is to big. The way I grew up was truly like a movie. I lived beside my grandparents and great grandma until she passed when I was 16. My daughter was raised the same beside her grandparents and great grandparents. Went to a very small private school and graduated with seven in my class. I wanted to get away from here so bad I lied to myself and family, mainly myself thinking I wanted a career in fashion. I lasted from August to March in Richmond VA. It was the biggest culture shock of my life. First time seeing goth people and blue hair. I grew up with guys that had the rifle in the pic up to go hunting after school. Came back got a job tried community college and school just wasn't for me. Met the only person I ever wanted to be around more than two weeks and 35 years later still together. I'm not a good candidate for the brainwashing college professors🤣 Sorry that was so long and I know they say on here don't tell to much about yourself but I'm damned proud we have made a family instead of trying to build careers. Again blessings to you.
That's truly, no lie, heartwarming. A lot of young people stay in the grey cities, refusing to admit a mistake. You broke out and were free again, I'm really happy for you and yours. Thank you for sharing.