You're right hun...drinking doesn't solve anything, and fwiw there's a reason they call it the devil's juice and "spirits". If you two are always with the kid, then you need to find a sitter. Once a week, once every two weeks, something. "Us time" is so crucial. Real time. Having fun, getting dinner, some activity, but in that time there should be real conversation about "us". Your willingness to change is great. I hope she has that as well. But be mindful not to change everything about yourselves. There was something that kept you together all this time. Something bigger than a kid. Openly talk about your faith. Your goals. What you want the next ten, twenty, fifty years to look like with her, and even just for yourself. When you're on your death bed, what do you want to look back on? I want my memories to have him in them. That's me. And if that's you about her, tell her.
De nada. I don't know how it would be unrelated...just my opinion. The dark forces are involved in all these subjects, marriage and family are the most important on this earth. Personal awakenings, global awakenings. They all matter a whole lot.
You're right hun...drinking doesn't solve anything, and fwiw there's a reason they call it the devil's juice and "spirits". If you two are always with the kid, then you need to find a sitter. Once a week, once every two weeks, something. "Us time" is so crucial. Real time. Having fun, getting dinner, some activity, but in that time there should be real conversation about "us". Your willingness to change is great. I hope she has that as well. But be mindful not to change everything about yourselves. There was something that kept you together all this time. Something bigger than a kid. Openly talk about your faith. Your goals. What you want the next ten, twenty, fifty years to look like with her, and even just for yourself. When you're on your death bed, what do you want to look back on? I want my memories to have him in them. That's me. And if that's you about her, tell her.
De nada. I don't know how it would be unrelated...just my opinion. The dark forces are involved in all these subjects, marriage and family are the most important on this earth. Personal awakenings, global awakenings. They all matter a whole lot.