I agree. and I have drawn closer to Him over the last several years. But the attacks keep coming. I am standing firm as scripture tells us. Though I am growing very weary. I have read so many passages about giving him your troubles, resting in him, etc. I have fallen to my knees so many times in prayer. I spend at least 1-2 hours in prayer or sermon per day. It's at this point that I've recently stopped myself and just asked for him to give me the wisdom to understand why he's taking me through these trials and what he's trying to show me. Thank you for the encouragement.
I hear you, I have days where I can barely face getting up. I don't know your troubles, but they certainly sound plentiful, just know that there is at least one person in the world saying a prayer for you today, and probably more.
Stay strong, stay true, and here's to enough grit to see this thing through to the very end!
After giving it some thought, the only thing I can think of that might help in the short term is asking her to go to couples therapy.
Not necessarily to repair the relationship, but to at least come back to a place less combatative, at least for the sake of your child. It would also possibly make her feel emotionally safe enough to explain just why this has all happened. Women aren't exactly the most consistent creatures in the world.
At this point I'm assuming she isn't a church-goer herself? If she is, try appealing to that side of her nature to at least meet you half-way.
Bottom line is that she is taking advantage of you by not moving out after dropping such a bombshell into the relationship, and she needs to held to account for that. However, it doesn't sound likely that she is prepared to hear that from you, so a neutral third party might help there.
Whatever happens, I honour you for your courage to fight for your daughters' well-being under what sounds like really difficult circumstances. If all else fails, you could try washing her clothes in itching powder :p
Open the door of your heart to Jesus, and he will bring you the comfort you crave.
I know this because he did that for me. When they say Jesus is knocking and you just have to open the door, it's true, that's exactly what he's doing.
I agree. and I have drawn closer to Him over the last several years. But the attacks keep coming. I am standing firm as scripture tells us. Though I am growing very weary. I have read so many passages about giving him your troubles, resting in him, etc. I have fallen to my knees so many times in prayer. I spend at least 1-2 hours in prayer or sermon per day. It's at this point that I've recently stopped myself and just asked for him to give me the wisdom to understand why he's taking me through these trials and what he's trying to show me. Thank you for the encouragement.
I hear you, I have days where I can barely face getting up. I don't know your troubles, but they certainly sound plentiful, just know that there is at least one person in the world saying a prayer for you today, and probably more.
Stay strong, stay true, and here's to enough grit to see this thing through to the very end!
I really appreciate this. Thank you Jonathan.
I made a post here which outlines a lot of what I'm going through. If you feel like reading it. It's pretty long. https://greatawakening.win/p/17t1fU9bUd/
Oh dude, that's a mountain of heartache.
After giving it some thought, the only thing I can think of that might help in the short term is asking her to go to couples therapy.
Not necessarily to repair the relationship, but to at least come back to a place less combatative, at least for the sake of your child. It would also possibly make her feel emotionally safe enough to explain just why this has all happened. Women aren't exactly the most consistent creatures in the world.
At this point I'm assuming she isn't a church-goer herself? If she is, try appealing to that side of her nature to at least meet you half-way.
Bottom line is that she is taking advantage of you by not moving out after dropping such a bombshell into the relationship, and she needs to held to account for that. However, it doesn't sound likely that she is prepared to hear that from you, so a neutral third party might help there.
Whatever happens, I honour you for your courage to fight for your daughters' well-being under what sounds like really difficult circumstances. If all else fails, you could try washing her clothes in itching powder :p