Welcome to General Chat - GAW Community Area
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I think I get what Luminescent is saying. At least, I think so. Some people are just so toxic, it's dangerous to be around them. And I feel no obligation to do so. If God wants me to be around them, He'll prompt me and give me the strength. Not everybody is worth our time. Some are just demons in disguise.
That is exactly what I was getting at. Even drinking heavily and daily I was still me, loan friends money when they need, help my elderly neighbor rebuild his fence after a bad storm, let a coworker crash on my couch when there's trouble at home... so many people enabled my drinking or at least overlooked it because I'm a good person and a productive member of society. I have a problem with projection, I assume everyone is honest and moral.
Now that I don't drink I notice EVERYTHING and there really is some evil in people at places I hadn't expected to find it like AA. A lot are so busy stroking each other's egos for being sober that they choose not to see the demons in the room. At least an addict has the excuse of being too fucked up to notice the sins being committed or they've made but some of these people are full on working for the devil consciously.
Demon posed but still created by God...right
Shouldn't we approach these people with confidence that our Lord is stronger then any force that evil can send our way. And yes I know it's not always easy but shouldn't this be the goal.
These people are chances for our faith to take action. It's a process to get there and I don't judge anyone where they might be at.
The Bible tells us to focus on all things good and righteous. So to me this means I focus on the fact that our God can heal anyone and I will stand in the gap for them.
Love conquers all...what if your act of love and grace and mercy is the spark Jesus wanted to send there way so he could re ignifht the light within them.
I guess what I'm saying is we should always be receptive to being used by God. This requires putting aside our own understanding and following in the footsteps of Jesus as best we can.
I do understand what he is trying to say though. Simply providing some add on thoughts. Learning to suffer...even when it's caused by people...can really renew the mind in awesome ways
Oh and good to see you fren. Hope all is well with you
I believe in God's prompting. If God prompts us to hang with these people, then great. But if not, no harm, no foul. I don't believe in beating yourself up if you can't get through to somebody, or find them too difficult to deal with. Someone else will come along with the skills necessary to work with them. We don't all have the same skills, temperament, ability, etc. Some plant, some water, some harvest. And some might make an offer that is rejected, so they shake the dust from their sandals and move on. Jesus Himself instructed His disciples to behave in that way. Yes, it's crucial to remember that we are all sinners and we all fall short of the Glory of God. But I also know that God knows our weaknesses and our strengths. For some, toxic people are the limit. At this point in their lives, they are not equipped to deal with them. That might change later. On the other hand, there are people like you, who no doubt could deal with such people and do so very well. Better to have someone like you, with the patience and temperament to deal with those people, then someone who is ill-equipped. jmo.
I can do all thing through Christ who strengthens me :)
I do understand the heart of your message though fren. Absolutely no judgement on my end. Just wanna maybe motivate people out of there comfort zone. There is also power in the words we speak over ourselves.
Thanks for the kind words fren. Appreciate you sharing your heart