I totally get where you are coming from. Sadly, a lot of people is too far gone. If you want to keep trying, by all means do it. You are trying to do something good for somebody else, and who knows, maybe one will listen.
I'd say don't waste your time. They have backup there, and even if one of them responds to you in a positive way, the name-calling or banning might turn them away. But it's your decision, and if you feel like doing that, good luck.
I wish you a speedy recovery. About the hospital staff, I guess they are just fed up and tired of people coming in with any minor thing asking to get tested. Not the people's fault, thought. This is the medical system's fault, and these doctors and nurses who have taking part on this narrative are now tired and overworked, but this is the monster they created.
I didn't say anything about them because this topic has nothing to do with them. Doesn't mean that I don't care about them as well, but there is no comparison. Good for you to feel bad about the people jailed, but you should also feel bad for the people who trusted a government that is supposed to protect them.
I would just say that if you decline going to the wedding because of the vax requirement, just tell them that you are not attending because you are not vaccinated. Telling them about the medical apartheid might not make them change their minds, so that would be lost breath. Just stand your ground and that is it. Enjoy your day with your granddaughter.
This is an ongoing psyop. Some people will get it if they see that restrictions get worse and they can't take it any longer without stopping to think that those who have taken it are still under some of the same restrictions as those of us who have not taken them.
Of course, we both want her to come out of this.