my sisters husband is requiring that we get tested to see only my sister and my nieces and nephew. my parents are willing to but I drew a hard line in the on that from the beginning. I know the husband is manipulative and controlling that's been obvious to me for a long time. I am asking for prayer and advice on how to get around that. I am so done with all of this. My sister needs to be around us as a family. Its hard for me to hear my sister crying, but I can not take a test. So that's what I'm going through. I just need prayer and advice.
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It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.
-- Galatians 5:1
Stand your ground. You are in the right. Lead by example.
Are you sick? That's all they need to know. You know your body, if you feel fine tell them that you are 100%.
The testing is bullshit and a big reason this fraud worked on the public.
Hold the line is my advice! If we continue to comply then this nightmare never ends.
Also lifting up a prayer for unity once again. We have all lost so much precious time with our friends and families. May God bring us all together in harmony very soon!❤️🙏🏻
Thank you. I never have complied and never will. It's just so difficult. With my parents hurting in this process as well. My parents have known I won't do it. They are now asking me to and I'm still not going to. I don't want to put burden on them but my line has and was drawn repeatedly
Sometimes they have to be without you to know what they’ve missed. Similar situation with family and loving and praying from afar. We all make choices and unfortunately, this society is at the point that one mistake can be devastating. Be safe and Gods got you and your family. I’m sorry what you are going through.
It’s always so much easier to just give in isn’t it? Especially when family is involved. They love us and want what’s best for us. We know this but we also know through extensive research they are wrong. Seriously and dead wrong. Just know you are not alone. History will be on your side. All will be revealed. They will all know the truth soon enough. Be patient. Be kind. Keep the faith.🙂
Hopefully your parents are also asking him to back off as well. Talk to your sister separately, and invite her over whenever she is able.
She doesn't live near me at all sadly. 3 hours drive
Why not sit down with your sister and ask her what she wants?
And getting testing don’t let them stick anything up your nose!
Lay it all at the Lords feet. There is no need to carry this burden on your own, the Lord knows your heart. He will hear your prayers as well as mine and others on here who are praying for you today about your situation. Maybe this is what it will take to get your sister to stand up to her husband. Sometimes these control freaks need stood up to and told that "I'm not going to take it anymore." There is always the police if things get out of hand. Take it from someone who's been there. But follow your heart and where your heart goes, God goes with you.
I will keep you in my prayers. Try not to worry, pray and keep the faith. All will be well. God bless and have a Merry Christmas.
Do not comply. Also send the police for a welfare check. They will be required to speak with her. Let’s see her husband demand a test from THEM.
Ask him if he is going to take an AIDS test before a family gathering, because if he took the vax he may have Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome.
he's not even staying for the day, nor dinner just dropping off the kids and my sister and leaving.
! So what is the point?!
Do you offer Prayers for your BIL instead of just "how to get around him" ?
Pray for him to truly see the truth of the world, renew his family bonds and experience an awakening of his own.
"My sister needs to be around us as a family."
Your sister also needs her immediate family whole.
Your sister's husband needs a swift slap upside the head and I'm willing to do it for you. :-)
It will be biblical.
Prayers for you bud. Only advice I can offer is to try to remain as calm and collected as possible throughout this, which can be much easier said than done. Reassure them that you wouldn’t put them in jeopardy if you or anyone in your fam felt sick in any way. Happy to social distance. But it’s time for us to get back to normal.
the larger bitch in me would tell you to say, "as soon as BIL gets a psych eval.." but it seems your sister is your main concern, and that may not be the appropriate response in this situation, sorry you have to deal with this.
When I was a smoker, I knew it was hurting me, but I only wanted to be around other smokers. Folks who were not hurting themselves were not welcome around me. If someone was trying to quit I made it a point to offer them a cig, openly encouraged them to fail. I never thought I was wrong. until I AWAKENED.
Make plans directly with your sister and have her bring her nieces along. If the husband gives your a hard time, tell him to fuck right off.
You need to stand strong and hold the line. Soon the vaxxed will no longer be in a position of power. The tide is turning. They can only ignore the facts for so long and when it falls apart we will be on the side of goodness and understanding and then they will know. Then they can also live free.
Invite them all out to a church service and afterwards present them with a gorgeous United States 🇺🇸 of America Flag for their home. Or just show up Christmas caroling. Your intuition will guide you. Maintain equilibrium and Joy!!
Stand strong and don't get the shot. There's no sense in you dying or being permanently crippled on top of everything else. Do you have a case for spousal abuse? Maybe try that route to get to your sister, or be sneaky somehow. But DON'T GIVE IN AND GET THE SHOT!
This isnt about the shot. its about the test. never getting a test nor a shot.
I wouldn’t do either and won’t. Being pressured to attend a function across the country and won’t. People are very selfish and want you to risk your life to be in “their company.” That’s not love that’s wicked.
Take the test, show your sister how far pout of YOUR own comfort zone you are willing to go to SPEAK sense into her. Just my opinion, a simple test is nothing....I would say...."Hey asshole, since you are the fuckin Gestapo, I opt for an at home test I can purchase myself"........Meet in the middle......talk sense into your sister. But remember, their lives are legally, and emotionally intertwined. Unless she is ready to bail on the life she helped grow, she is going to stay put. "The devil you know" kinda thing. Sadly :(.
Your post is the problem
My post is? Resolution cant be all 100% my way or highway. They are trying to get their sister to bail on her old man, but are unwilling to make any move to try and SHOW her you fucking mean it? MY post is the problem?? The fact they even posted this is a problem, it's a simple at home test.....its not caving, its going to an extreme to show a loved one how far you will go.....but yea.....love, compassion.I guess can be a problem.
Not gonna cut family out of my life. I will always be there for my sister. But I won't be bullied into it. Standing ground but with open arms ready to welcome when they come around. Much like how God has done for me and all of humanity
You love your family - this is obvious. When stuck in such an impossible situation, I find it helps to “do nothing”, and cast it onto God. This has yet to fail me. It’s not about “letting it go”, but rather “letting it be”. The problem is typically resolved with hardly any effort.