Didn’t cheat on her, commit dv or anything like that but I messed up pretty bad and my engagement is on the rocks now. I am so upset with myself that I haven’t ate in two days and it’s one of those things where my words don’t matter at the moment so I just feel powerless because nothing in the immediate will fix it. Only time and action will help it. I have made a plan of action I just hope she gives me the chance so I can weather this storm.
I don’t want to go into the details here but if you could pray for me I would appreciate it.
So sorry, fren. We all do stupid things sometimes. If what you did is something like a betrayal of trust as opposed to just something irritating that made her mad, then I would say it will take rebuilding that trust. I would suggest giving her a little space to cool down. Not ignoring her! By no means do I mean that. But maybe just be quiet. Don't argue, don't try to defend. Just be quiet or let her talk and if she does, really listen. Ask her if she'll let you explain, and if she will, do so humbly. I will pray she is able to see your sincerity and forgive your trespass. I hope it works out. Lean on God. Take care.
I think this comment is really good. Maybe it's also important to understand why you took the action you did which hurt her and seek to address the cause or the point at which you two may have started to diverge from a healthy relationship and why.
Yes, excellent advice. Introspection would be good.
Very good advice gobby...I concur...just give her space and time...she needs to sort things out, too...prayers for you both...