I think the best course of action to remain true to yourself while mitigating damaging the relationship is to offer your opinion while being emphatic that everyone else is free to do or think as they wish. That should work with most sane people on either side of the aisle, but try to gauge what her perspectives are before you say anything. If she turns out to be a super woke person, it very likely will not work. You lying about your thoughts on all these subjects will NOT lead to any sort of healthy relationship. However, it could be deemed noble and worthwhile to subtly lie or sugarcoat your thoughts on a subject, with the goal being to influence her over a longer period of time.
I couldn't really tell what you were actually asking in this post, but I think that addresses what you were looking for.
Yeah you're gonna wanna hide the fuck out that little tidbit right there. If she's healthy then she will see any kind of two year immersion into a website of any kind, as a red flag. Unless she's actually autistic, then you may be able to get away with it. Most of the people here ruined relationships like you did over stuff on the news. Don't keep doing that. I hope you keep us updated on this aspect of your new relationship. I'm pulling for ya!
I am in a similar situation. I can say what you have described yourself as doing has been working out for me. This requires that the other person is an open minded and thinking person. Both need to be able to disagree gracefully without arguing. Learn from each other and love each other and help each other. Enjoy the journey fren.
personal opinion .... as long as your core values line up, you should be fine. no two people are the same nor view things the same - different experiences shape us all differently. don't sweat the small stuff. my granny used to say "stop borrowing trouble"
You are at least self aware. Lot of anons went heavy on their captive audiences. So many would be happier if they dropped the hate and paranoia and fear.
I think the best course of action to remain true to yourself while mitigating damaging the relationship is to offer your opinion while being emphatic that everyone else is free to do or think as they wish. That should work with most sane people on either side of the aisle, but try to gauge what her perspectives are before you say anything. If she turns out to be a super woke person, it very likely will not work. You lying about your thoughts on all these subjects will NOT lead to any sort of healthy relationship. However, it could be deemed noble and worthwhile to subtly lie or sugarcoat your thoughts on a subject, with the goal being to influence her over a longer period of time.
I couldn't really tell what you were actually asking in this post, but I think that addresses what you were looking for.
I don't try to convince anyone of q posts.
I just spread the truth the best I can.
Yeah you're gonna wanna hide the fuck out that little tidbit right there. If she's healthy then she will see any kind of two year immersion into a website of any kind, as a red flag. Unless she's actually autistic, then you may be able to get away with it. Most of the people here ruined relationships like you did over stuff on the news. Don't keep doing that. I hope you keep us updated on this aspect of your new relationship. I'm pulling for ya!
My grandfather told me “the best gift you’ll give your children is your choice of their mother.” He was right.
Be equally yoked....... and that's being honest.
Equally yoked! The main question in my mind, is she a Christian?
Dude whatever you do don't start talking about this stuff until like the 10th date lol
I am in a similar situation. I can say what you have described yourself as doing has been working out for me. This requires that the other person is an open minded and thinking person. Both need to be able to disagree gracefully without arguing. Learn from each other and love each other and help each other. Enjoy the journey fren.
personal opinion .... as long as your core values line up, you should be fine. no two people are the same nor view things the same - different experiences shape us all differently. don't sweat the small stuff. my granny used to say "stop borrowing trouble"
If she's very normie, is she vaccinated? If she is, then run!
You are at least self aware. Lot of anons went heavy on their captive audiences. So many would be happier if they dropped the hate and paranoia and fear.